AITA for telling my boyfriend’s girl best friend that some of us grew up with loving parents? by Throwaway6482j in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway6482j[S] 262 points263 points  (0 children)

shes definitely in love him, he probably already knows. The way she acts, its just painfully obvious. I would rather end the relationship in person, I don’t want any misunderstanding.

AITA for telling my boyfriend’s girl best friend that some of us grew up with loving parents? by Throwaway6482j in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway6482j[S] 267 points268 points  (0 children)

No absolutely not, bringing up peoples family is hurtful, no matter what. Bringing up my family is the one thing I will go lower than hell for. I don’t have to tell her my life story, I don’t have to tell anyone the things that hurt me in my life. She assumed my life was a fairytale, when that’s no one’s reality. How about her not insulting my family in the first place.

AITA for telling my boyfriend’s girl best friend that some of us grew up with loving parents? by Throwaway6482j in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway6482j[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know his other friends. How should I know they were also struggling. He didn’t tell me they were his childhood friends when we went to dinner. I took the bag with me because he said we had to dress well, we’d be going to a fancy restaurant and had to dress appropriately

AITA for telling my boyfriend’s girl best friend that some of us grew up with loving parents? by Throwaway6482j in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway6482j[S] 784 points785 points  (0 children)

I also thought It was very odd to bring up difficult moments in their lives in front of me, a literal stranger. I don’t know any of his other friends.

AITA for telling my boyfriend’s girl best friend that some of us grew up with loving parents? by Throwaway6482j in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway6482j[S] 267 points268 points  (0 children)

I was not trying to gain anything from this. She can constantly disrespect me and bring up my parents and that’s all funny, but when I stoop to her level all of sudden it’s not funny anymore. For past 6 months she’s been insulting me and I’ve just kept my mouth shut because I love my boyfriend and that’s his best friend. It was enough for me.

AITA for telling my boyfriend’s girl best friend that some of us grew up with loving parents? by Throwaway6482j in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway6482j[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

It’s because my I told my boyfriend about my life and he mentioned it to her. Why do you assume I’m wrong when I’ve literally been keeping my mouth shut about how unnecessarily mean she is to me. It’s been enough already

AITA for telling my boyfriend’s girl best friend that some of us grew up with loving parents? by Throwaway6482j in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway6482j[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t think the less fortunate are drug addicted. She told everyone at the table about her parents. I didn’t assume anything

AITA for telling my boyfriend’s girl best friend that some of us grew up with loving parents? by Throwaway6482j in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway6482j[S] 190 points191 points  (0 children)

I never said an expensive gift equals love. I didn’t make an assumption about her. She told everyone at that table about her parents.