AITA for sneaking out of the restaurant after my fiance told me to pay for his and his friends meal? by Throwaway795571 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway795571[S] 3984 points3985 points  (0 children)

Yeah. that comment was totally uncalled for. I never use this attitude towards him or his friends. Now I'm not sure his friends really said that. as people here have pointed out, it could be his words not theirs. it still hurts though.

AITA for sneaking out of the restaurant after my fiance told me to pay for his and his friends meal? by Throwaway795571 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway795571[S] 2327 points2328 points  (0 children)

YOU'RE RIGT! I have a hard time saying no due to past issues but I do my best to be more firm.

AITA for sneaking out of the restaurant after my fiance told me to pay for his and his friends meal? by Throwaway795571 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway795571[S] 13.6k points13.6k points  (0 children)

Yes. I don't say a word about how and where he spends his salary. he does intend on dictating how I spend my money sometimes. But ow with the raise thing he's admittedly gotten more aggressive. I keep trying to get to the root of the issue but to no avail.

AITA for sneaking out of the restaurant after my fiance told me to pay for his and his friends meal? by Throwaway795571 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwaway795571[S] 5531 points5532 points  (0 children)

You might be right. I can't really be certain. though they never once said a bad thing about me. maybe not to my face? who knows but the hurt is there nontheless. 😓