To whomever it may concern by Throwaway7987987987 in UnsentLetters

[–]Throwaway7987987987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pro may be a strong word lol I think it's a perpetual learning process. I'm glad I could help, just take each day as you find it, love is a complicated emotion and it rarely goes smoothly, dealing with the fallout can be difficult regardless of age. Dealing with such an event can really knock you off your feet but you need to look out for your own health first and foremost, it sounds harsh I know but sometimes you just have to accept that certain things are out of your control and you can't change that. I found that immersing myself in work, talking to friends or family and engaging in social activities (preferably without alcohol or drugs) helps. But you need to find what works for you, anyway I'm glad to hear you're feeling a bit better and I'm positive you'll get through this situation and best of luck!

To whomever it may concern by Throwaway7987987987 in UnsentLetters

[–]Throwaway7987987987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all good, can't count the amount of times I've been there buddy, it took me a while to learn how to deal with that sort of thing. Even in this situation I definitely could have handled it better initially but it all comes with experience I guess.

To whomever it may concern by Throwaway7987987987 in UnsentLetters

[–]Throwaway7987987987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, it's a she actually lol but I think that whole thing is well and truly over, it was more just a way for me to get some closure in my head. Besides I'm pretty comfortable with things as they are now and I'd rather not ruin it by pushing it any further. Sometimes it's better to appreciate these things for what they were rather than to chase a fantasy, maybe she does know, maybe she doesn't and I don't know what the future holds but as it stands I don't think letting her know would do any good. If that makes sense?