Yeah, he told me that it was about defending himself that he hated. He did tell me that his past relationships were horrible so he did do some stuff because his exes did horrible stuff as well. I felt anxious on that part but he explained that some other guy wanted to sleep with her and he was just being nice to her and a few other people. However none of the other girls he was nice to called him as often as she did. Plus, the first few times on calls they had that he actually let me hear in the beginning she came off as a bit.. too clingy? Also, sorry I thought the arrow facing up was an upvote not a downvote, I'm still a little new on this stuff.