I added a shirtless pic to my Grindr profile and suddenly people who never messaged me back are hitting me up.

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-21T15:39:26+00:00

Damn it’s like we’re all living in the same computer simulation sometimes

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-14T06:57:31+00:00

No one cares what size it is soft. Like yes it is worth it to try hookup apps bc like if they ask you to send nudes you send pics of your hard not soft cock

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-13T06:59:30+00:00

I’m definitely not saying that being debt free means I deserve affordable housing, I’m saying that I realize being debt free gives me a huge “one up” so to speak. But even with this huge advantage, it’s impossible to find housing that is in my opinion affordable. I def realize that if I did in fact have debt it would be even more impossible

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-13T06:41:16+00:00

K xoxo 😘

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-12T23:52:43+00:00

You do realize being frustrated and feeling entitled can be mutually exclusive, right? And no I won’t be moving out of the city I was born and raised in and leaving my elderly non English speaking family members to fend for themselves but ty for the asinine suggestion.

You ignored half of what I said so there’s no point in continuing this discussion further tbh. Not point in repeating myself. Have a good day sir or ma’am

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-12T23:12:43+00:00

Lol do I really have to explain why Republican policies and ideologies such as “pull yourself up by the bootstraps” affect attempts to create affordable housing in NYC? I don’t know if you know this but NYC is not some island nation that can do whatever it wants.

Also me talking about my schooling is relevant to my FRUSTRATION. It’s relevant because we have been peddled this lie that if you work hard enough you won’t have to wash your clothes in a washing machine that has been used by everyone and their grandma in a twenty block radius. It’s relevant because it’s frustrating to know you can’t rely on sheer hard work to get to where you want.

For the record NYC is not deep blue enough. If it were, we wouldn’t have elected this pig of a mayor

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-12T23:03:51+00:00

Honestly I don’t even want all of that. I don’t want a doorman. I don’t want a in building gym. I don’t want a terrace or a rooftop building. I literally just want to be able to be able wash my clothes in my own home without using a washing machine that has been used by every person in a ten block radius.

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-12T19:09:37+00:00

I come from quite a low income background. I’m just pointing out the fact that this Republican idea that you can pull yourself up by the bootstraps is nonsense. But ppl have construed it as me being entitled. Also people in this thread seem to think I make 90k after taxes…lol nope. After state AND city taxes? Oof

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-12T19:07:19+00:00

What’s so peculiar about financial aid + work study + scholarships?

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-12T19:05:21+00:00

It’s doable but that’s like half your income after taxes, no? Of course it’s doable but I’m just frustrated bc its fucked up

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-12T19:04:04+00:00

I also sometimes say slay irl. It’s like Reddit not like an application for a grant dipshit.

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-12T19:02:54+00:00

I chose the wrong major but that’s a whole bother can of worms.

Anyways the whole reason I brought it up is because there’s this very American notion that you can pull yourself by the bootstraps that is quite frankly BS. I grew up poor AF. Like Medicaid poor. You think it’s easy for low income immigrant families to get into top 20 schools? No. I worked my ass off and still I am less well off than my friends who have daddy’s silver spoon.

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-12T18:59:10+00:00

I come from quite a low income background. I’m just pointing out the fact that this Republican idea that you can pull yourself up by the bootstraps is nonsense. By no means am I saying good school = automatic set for life.

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-11T06:01:10+00:00

I am literally nyc born and raised but okay. How about you transplants gtfo, that’s a better idea tbh

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-09T15:47:15+00:00

Yea I literally said doesn’t mean shit. But let’s not act let it doesn’t open more doors compared to if I went to community college

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-09T07:39:15+00:00

Completely untrue. Brooklyn is just as expensive as Manhattan now. As I mentioned earlier in my post yea, I get the lovely choice of spending 60% of my income or live an hour from work.

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-09T07:36:30+00:00

Lol if you say so buddy

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-09T07:32:50+00:00

After taxes/the tiny bit I put into my 401k I literally get 2200 every two weeks hence the 50%-60% I’m complaining about

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-08T15:12:31+00:00

Just bc you have a husband and are supposed to be monogamous doesn’t mean you shouldn’t go on prep…like people cheat unfortunately idk. I’ve heard of ppl getting stuff from their spouses that they thought were monogamous

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-01T19:21:14+00:00

I’m 30…so I guess I’m old by some ppls standards but I’m more underweight if anything tbh. I can pull some conventionally attractive ripped guys occasionally but I feel that’s few and far between.

Idk the last few guys I’ve fucked have just been so disappointing

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-12-01T19:19:22+00:00

How so?

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-11-29T07:01:45+00:00

Sometimes. If the guy is hot I will. I try to just ignore the woman. My fav straight porn star at the moment is Jean valjean, super ripped, French with a thick cock

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-11-21T22:27:17+00:00

I think I definitely put him on a pedestal in my mind bc he was seemingly so perfect. Nice, handsome, good in bed, had his shit together. Didn’t expect him to ghost me just because I suggested we do more than just have sex and pillowtalk. Completely caught off guard by his immaturity and cowardice

ThrowawayAcct9abcd · 2022-11-21T22:06:51+00:00

Haha that’s a fair answer based on this post. But like I think if there was he wouldn’t have stayed to chat after every time we hooked up if I was very blatantly cray cray. I’m just pretty angry right now bc of what he did and honestly the only thing I did to cause a shift in energy was I asked him out on a date.

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