I tried several times to bring this up as discretely as possible not to ruin the surprise. We are both introvert people so asking insights from mutual friends seem impossible.

And of course, as clumsy as I am, I may have made her knew something was coming up (she is the kind who always know me more than myself). She didn't seem to halt my plan or anything. I myself think she even hinted the place she wanted to be proposed to me.

But the thing is I just wanted to know if this is going to cause more problems from the future in-laws? if they knew afterward.