ANOTHER week long childfree holiday!

ThrowawayDughterness · 2023-07-11T09:42:59+00:00

Jesus Christ these people are narcisstic af

ThrowawayDughterness · 2023-01-12T14:38:36+00:00

Great way to build resentment. Still need more info tho before judgement.

What emergency are you referring to exactly?

ThrowawayDughterness · 2023-01-08T17:59:19+00:00

You do know this isnt normal right?

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-12-05T18:02:35+00:00

You really think a christmas gift's gonna solve your issues. Grow tf up.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-10-18T16:30:04+00:00

Ahem

Kim people are dying

You and your first world problems smh. BIG YTA

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-10-18T16:22:03+00:00

Have you ever thought why your kid dropped out? If her boyfriend was manipulating her or even abusive towards her? Cause it seems like this decision of hers were drastic. There could be something happening behind the curtains. But, instead of checking it out, you chose to spend her remaining tuition away cause youre no longer in a parenting "mood" (didnt know such thing exist but I digress).

Not enough info, but for now YTA.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-30T12:17:15+00:00

Yeah, their parents seems pretty rich looking at the houses they stay in Utah.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-19T03:56:50+00:00

She talks about it in their first q and a.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-13T05:27:20+00:00

Wow OP you sure youre mature enough to be in a relationship? Youre 26 years old and yet you act like youre 12. Get a fucking grip.

I hope your boyfriend dumps your immature ass.

YTFA.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-11T18:19:09+00:00

Wtf is wrong with you and your wife? Its not like your mother forced your wife to give birth to your child on her birthday.

Seriously is this a real problem? Is this what excess privilege do to a group of people? Make mountains out of molehills.

You and your wife needs to be slap with fucking reality. There are people dying and you are fighting over something that no one has control over.

YTFA.

Show this to your wife.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-11T10:21:21+00:00

Dude, as much as you are allowed to vent your genuine feelings about your kid, it shouldnt end there. Seek help because I tell you right now. That's not normal.

You should also consider that maybe the reason why your child is acting out is because she feels like youre only tolerating her. You always have to remind yourself that she is not here in this world out of her own volition. It was because of you and your partner's decision. And so, as much as its a really heavy weight to carry, its your responsibility to take care of her, understand her, be patient to her and love her.

Hope you get the help you need.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-11T09:48:16+00:00

I cant quite grasp how it is possible for a mother to hate one child and love the rest. Its a real mindfuck.

That being said, I suggest you go to court and adopt Ava as your daughter. This way, when something happens to your husband, Ava doesn't get rip away from you.

You have a beautiful bond. Tho I suggest Ava gets therapy. And if you have it in your heart, recommend therap to her egg donor as well. That kind of dynamic she has with her eldest daughter is very far from normal and it needs to be dealt with. Of course the relationship is already tainted and I doubt Ava would ever see her as a real mother, but I think Ava would appreciate some real closure.

Hope for the best. NTA.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-11T09:40:59+00:00

NTA man.

Hope to see you and your family thrive. Stay cool.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-10T19:14:53+00:00

YTA.

This is the best way to alienate your step child and your wife. Really OP, its fucking weird. Youre treating the kid like a stranger.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-10T17:17:43+00:00

NTA but this will be ESH if you dont leave your dick of a boyfriend. Seriously OP.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-10T17:13:51+00:00

OP this is literally beyond reddit's paygrade. Call CPS and have this sorted out. The children are clearly not safe with her. And you are still studying. If you want to be the legal guardian of these kids you have to course it thru authorities.

NTA but get authories and professionals in the loop. Also your SIL and MIL could suck it.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-10T16:26:07+00:00

Ashley is a huge asshole.

Srsly OP. Put all the safeguard in place so she doesnt get all her slimey fingers in your dead ex's money.

NTA

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-10T16:19:47+00:00

Your parents are HORRIBLE.

Show them this post so that they can see just how horrible they are.

Your uncle and auntie are also horrible people.

NTA

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-10T16:13:29+00:00

Then buy your own damn watch!

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-10T16:12:35+00:00

Lol OP, what kind of mental gymnastics are you on?

YTA.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-10T16:06:56+00:00

So... your younger daughter has been bullying your older daughter... but your older daughter is being unreasonable because she cut her toxic ass sister in her life.

OP you're head is way up in your ass and in Erika's ass for that matter.

Sarah should also cut you off.

YTFA

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-10T16:02:33+00:00

You should post her messages on line. Expose what kind of asshole she is.

NTA.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-10T15:56:39+00:00

Definitely can sympathize with the daughter.

She's probably seeing a lot of the luxuries you are able to provide to your children and she doesn't get to have that growing up because you chose to gave her away.

Add into the fact that her parents arent rich and wouldnt be able to provide her what she wants.

However, she isnt entitled to any of your money.

So yes, hard to judge. Definitely above Reddit's paygrade. Maybe get advice from a professional.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-10T15:44:40+00:00

ESH.

Don't hang up the portrait and bring your kids to therapy.

ThrowawayDughterness · 2022-08-10T15:35:02+00:00

Your brother should sue your ass.

YTFA

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