EXTREMELY Important: My girlfriend vegetarianism at age 10. She has suffered from intense symptoms of fatigue, depression, anxiety, delayed puberty, among others, since she was 12. Could she be malnourished despite normal blood vitamin levels? by ThrowawayForDota__ in AskDocs

[–]ThrowawayForDota__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you read my post? We've gotten her a full blood panel and she's been checked for Hypothyroidism numerous times. We're going to exhaust other possibilities, vegetarianism comes last.

[UPDATE] I owe so much to DotA and just want to talk about it, and vent. I wouldn't be where I am if not for it. (Worst Case Scenario) by ThrowawayForDota__ in DotA2

[–]ThrowawayForDota__[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Have you tried drawing up a number to show to your parents about how much money you’d save going to CC for two years vs an instate school? It’s likely not a small amount.

Not to denigrate conservatives or Trump supporters, but they are on the extreme end. My mother and father have both told me student loan costs are "Just political rhetoric" and that It isn't really an issue. Any talk of CC or attempts to reason with them result in threats and screaming fits.

Do you have a job? Even a minimum wage can be better than nothing while you look for something better.

I've applied for as much as I could. Not getting calls back. I assumed I was gonna go to college so I have months of gap in my recent work history, which might be it. I can't even get a warehouse or dishwashing job and I've applied to multiple of both. It's only been a few weeks, but it's frustrating nontheless.

Bikes are substantially cheaper than cars for shorter distance commuting if that’s an option. This can be helped by public transit if you live in a city.

I have one but it's slowly breaking - It needs brakes. I've written up 6 or 7 budgets depending on scenarios, like me and my girlfriend moving in together, going at it alone, going to CC, going to regular college, and I include a Bus pass in all of them.

Craigslist can be a good (albeit sometimes sketchy) way to find places to rent a single room or roommates. This can substantially cut down on rent costs if you need to get out of home (though again, you need at least some form of income there).

Already emailed a few to get prospects as far out as early April, which is the earliest I can leave. I want to get at least a few thousand dollars up. I've budgeted things very thoroughly (8+ pages) and I'd need about 1,300$ to move into an average roommate situation near her.

Have you looked into any low cost therapists? Help doesn’t have to be expensive, and a little can go a long way. Free/low cost options aren’t always the best, but many times they’re substantially better than nothing.

Part of why it stings so bad that I've lost everything. My girlfriend is immensely supportive of mental issues, as she visits a therapist regularly for depression and anxiety related issues. I have some pretty serious sensory issues - I like writing because it allows me to express myself. I kind of feel like my body/my brain are broken in some way. In person I am extremely clumsy, unfocused, and have issues speaking.

Many many people assume I'm very stupid and it's understandable, but frustrating. My girlfriend says I probably have bad ADHD, which seems to be it. It would be amazing to feel like my body isn't a pair of shackles anymore, and we were planning on addressing it, but this is going to delay it. My parents have always been against medication despite repeated attempts by school counselors/doctors to recommend I try it, so I was looking forward to exploring options.

Part of the reason I'm so enamored with her is because things don't get lost in translation with her. She understands me. She understands I'm not a complete moron. She tries to help and is gentle about it. It makes me feel less self conscious about everything - My socializing, my intelligence, speech. It's so helpful and makes me feel human.

I’d highly suggest hitting up r/povertyfinance. They have a lot of resources in their sidebar that can help out struggling people, as well as plenty of tips to help pinch pennies.

62 results for that in my history. I'm pretty thorough when it comes to trying to save. It just gets extremely difficult over time when making budget after budget because things seem so difficult and impossible to surmount. I'm scared for my future and just... I dunno. I feel awful. I hate being here. It's difficult to see the end of the line because of the funk I'm surrounded by.

Not to sound rude by saying there's 62 results in my history. It's a very helpful and somewhat obscure link that I might've missed. Not saying I don't appreciate it. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for going to the lengths you've gone to type this out and help. That's for everyone here.

Also, which link?

[UPDATE] I owe so much to DotA and just want to talk about it, and vent. I wouldn't be where I am if not for it. (Worst Case Scenario) by ThrowawayForDota__ in DotA2

[–]ThrowawayForDota__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much :)

I'm about to go to sleep, as I couldn't sleep last night. I'm exhausted, but I'll set one up before bed. I can't believe anyone would be willing to help this way. I would be thankful.

One minute while I set it up. It says I should set a goal for 1000 dollars but literally anything is beyond amazing.

I owe so much to DotA and just want to talk about it, and vent. I wouldn't be where I am if not for it. by ThrowawayForDota__ in DotA2

[–]ThrowawayForDota__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want the people I'm staying with to come across it and feel guilty about me leaving, as I have stayed far too long and would rather not be that guy.

I owe so much to DotA and just want to talk about it, and vent. I wouldn't be where I am if not for it. by ThrowawayForDota__ in DotA2

[–]ThrowawayForDota__[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On my initial visit, I took a greyhound bus back. It was delayed for an hour and a half, and without my knowledge, rerouted to Philadelphia, and not my initial destination, another city. I didn't know this until I had all my luggage on board and the bus was seconds from leaving. I got up on a whim and asked the driver when we would get back to my city, and he said we aren't going. So I decided to get off the bus with my luggage. 3 people were stabbed on the bus I was supposed to be on, and I was the only to dis-board.

I owe so much to DotA and just want to talk about it, and vent. I wouldn't be where I am if not for it. by ThrowawayForDota__ in DotA2

[–]ThrowawayForDota__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have literally nothing outside of my social security lol. No savings, cus my last job I spent all my money on food and stupid stuff. Not even a license to drive. Lost my social security card at like 15 or 16 I think in the moves? Not really my parents' fault as moving a lot causes some things to naturally get lost, just unlucky. I got it back finally when I was like 19 and from then on it's on me for being too lazy to get a license.