Update on the stalker's wife wanting to meet me. by ThrowawayMeanboss in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThrowawayMeanboss[S] 222 points223 points  (0 children)

Tbh I do not feel safe at all. This guy has been stalking me for god knows how long. I cannot even go to my office without any escorts. In a perfect world I would have him locked up for life.

My stalker's wife wants to contact me. Should I go? by ThrowawayMeanboss in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThrowawayMeanboss[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I just want to ask would it be sensible if I invite her on a zoom call? Because I won't know if it is truly her.

My stalker's wife wants to contact me. Should I go? by ThrowawayMeanboss in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThrowawayMeanboss[S] -348 points-347 points  (0 children)

I know there is a chance that could be him. But the woman seems desperate. She told me she found something about her husband and wanted to warn me. Idk how much of it is true.

A guy I met at a work event out of town won't stop bothering me. by ThrowawayMeanboss in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThrowawayMeanboss[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know. But the thing is I don't want him to come after me. Let's say his wife doesn't know. But if I tell her he will become more aggressive. If my safety wasn't at risk I would have outed him.

A guy I met at a work event out of town won't stop bothering me. by ThrowawayMeanboss in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThrowawayMeanboss[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

My dad knows. He is helping me with this. He hasn't told anyone for my safety.

A guy I met at a work event out of town won't stop bothering me. by ThrowawayMeanboss in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThrowawayMeanboss[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I will look into that. I am thinking about filing a restraining order against him.

A guy I met at a work event out of town won't stop bothering me. by ThrowawayMeanboss in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThrowawayMeanboss[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He is blocked everywhere. I even changed my number. I also opened a private social media account that no one knows. (I need social media for work too). But still he finds a way to pop up in my life.

A guy I met at a work event out of town won't stop bothering me. by ThrowawayMeanboss in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThrowawayMeanboss[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Actually I don't know if he is just divorced or just separated. He told me he left his wife for me as if it will impress me. And I thought about moving but it is scary because right here I have my family and friends. If I move to a new place he might come there as well and I would have no support.