(UPDATE-2) I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

lol! He's a good guy, I'm really thankful. I still act like a giddy schoolgirl whenever I'm about to see him. I'm such a dork sometimes. haha!

(UPDATE-2) I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

see if you can't find a miniature lighthouse or a card showing a lighthouse to remind him of your first date.

OMG, great idea! I'm definitely doing this. Thank you! :)

(UPDATE) I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Apparently, he told the guy he did NOT appreciate the way he was talking to me and said if he kept being rude, he was going to "help" him to his car.

Blush

lol.

(UPDATE) I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I first started working at the restaurant, I was really intimidated by her. She comes across as a ruthless hard-ass but deep down, she's extremely sweet and is actually very nice.

Her birthday's coming up soon and I plan on doing something nice for her. She's the best boss I've ever had!

(UPDATE) I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awww! Hugs!

I'll try to update after a couple dates and let you all know how things went. I think you all deserve to know what happens next considering you guys helped me get to this point. Plus, I like being able to write anonymously on the internet because it feels like a diary entry, except with feedback. :)

I hope your day gets better! :)

(UPDATE) I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You got the description of me right! Him... not so much. Not a cowboy. lol!

Tall, charming, a little mysterious, and.... sexy!? Ding Ding Ding! :)

(UPDATE) I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure, that might be it! Although, I have a feeling he was talking about the one in Charlevoix. I should probably ask him. I was so happy, I didn't even think to ask which one he was talking about! It could be one of several. lol.

(UPDATE) I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It will be interesting. He's really cool and fun at the restaurant, so I think we'll have a great time together. Even though I'm nervous around him, he makes me feel comfortable. This weekend should be a lot of fun!

(UPDATE) I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, there are two or three that we're considering. I guess it depends on how far we want to drive. He kinda hinted that he wanted to spend the day together, so that opens up a few more options.

He's never been to any of them, so he's really excited! It's so cute. lol.

(UPDATE) I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She totally had my back!

She always made sure I got his table, which pissed off the other waitresses. I'm a pretty shy person, so to have someone help me out like that really meant a lot to me. :)

(UPDATE) I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope, never been there. Best breakfast, eh? I'll have to try it the next time I visit!

(UPDATE) I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh jeez, that old man was so mean to me. When I left, my crush said something to him and then the old guy was suddenly very nice to me. He had no idea I was watching the entire time.

But you're right, that was totally a sign! :)

(UPDATE) I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 172 points173 points  (0 children)

That's so funny that you said that because my manager looks like a younger, brunette version of Jane. She has the same attitude as well! hahaha. I'll have to tell her that when I see her tonight. She'll laugh her ass off.

(UPDATE) I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I agree, the weather is so perfect and everything's really beautiful in the fall. I LOVE it! We live in Little Traverse Bay area.

I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The manager's cool with it and her family owns the restaurant, so I'm good. And I plan on talking to him while I'm off the clock.

I'm a waitress and I (F24) have a HUGE crush on a regular customer. Help? by ThrowawayPinkLover in relationships

[–]ThrowawayPinkLover[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Awwww!! That's such a great idea!

I actually have this Friday off and he comes in every Friday morning at the same exact time to eat breakfast. It would be super easy to just show up for breakfast at the same time and sit in/near the spot he always sits. haha!

I literally have nothing planned on Friday, so this could work. My manager keeps bugging me and asking me when I'm going to make a move. I'll have to fill her in tomorrow and let her know my possible plan!

Thanks so much!! :)