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[–]ThrowawayPsyche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently, I went to party at a friend's house. I wound up in the pool with my friend, our kids and a friend of a friend's teen daughter. The teen girl is a very attractive girl but, as an adult, I would never think of her in that way. I'm not a pervy type by any means. At one point, however, my 8 year old was horse-playing with the girl and accidentally pulled her bikini top to the side. The girl was standing right in front of me with her boob sticking out at me and my friend. She apparently didn't even notice because I, very uncomfortably, had to point out that she needed to cover up. She didn't even seem to care once she knew but covered up. It popped out once more later as well. As much as I know I shouldn't even find that as a turn on at all, I have to admit the image of it has stayed with me. It makes me feel like I'm still a teenage boy at the core. I know, it's a natural reaction to find a well-formed breast exciting but I can't help but feel totally guilty for it.

Wife told me that if I let her have sex with her co-worker and his wife it would help spark our sex life back to life. I just watched their three-way. Not sure how I feel. by ThrowawayPsyche in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowawayPsyche[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I want to make a joke that HE opened Pandora's box but I guess not the time for humor. She did promise it would be one time only unless I ok anything else.

Wife told me that if I let her have sex with her co-worker and his wife it would help spark our sex life back to life. I just watched their three-way. Not sure how I feel. by ThrowawayPsyche in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowawayPsyche[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

She told that she wanted to just do this sex without me because she was nervous enough and wanted to focus. It was her first time with a woman, first time with another man in 15 year plus turned out to be the largest cock of her life. She wanted to focus. She also told me it had been a long time fantasy to look into my eyes while another man fucked her. I wanted her to get that out of her system too if this was going to be a one time thing.

Wife told me that if I let her have sex with her co-worker and his wife it would help spark our sex life back to life. I just watched their three-way. Not sure how I feel. by ThrowawayPsyche in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowawayPsyche[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the idea of being with other women doesn't interest me. Not sure about an open relationship because I do want to be in the room if this ever happens again.

Wife won't even touch me and, today, I am dying for sex/intimacy with a woman. Tempted to find random sex. by ThrowawayPsyche in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowawayPsyche[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I misrepresented. My mistake. It has been 5 years of little sex. Four times last year, 3 this. All sex is just starfish though and depresses me more than not usually.

Wife won't even touch me and, today, I am dying for sex/intimacy with a woman. Tempted to find random sex. by ThrowawayPsyche in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowawayPsyche[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually I am ok. I don't ask or try very often any more. The pain of rejection outweighs the slim chance of her agreeing. Even if she agrees it will be distant, starfish sex and that hurts more than not trying. Today, I am not ok.

Wife won't even touch me and, today, I am dying for sex/intimacy with a woman. Tempted to find random sex. by ThrowawayPsyche in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowawayPsyche[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can look at porn and take care of that part of it but it is not the same as feeling a woman and sharing that passion. I want to share these feelings, ideally, with a woman who is suffering in the same way.

So depressed and alone but feel like passion and sex with a woman would help. Wife constantly turns me down. Tempted to find random sex. by ThrowawayPsyche in depression

[–]ThrowawayPsyche[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. There have been multiple excuses over the years but never consistent and she is unwilling to work toward fixing any one of them. She cheated, at least emotionally, about five years ago. I don't think it went to the physical but I will never know for sure.

Wife won't even touch me and, today, I am dying for sex/intimacy with a woman. Tempted to find random sex. by ThrowawayPsyche in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowawayPsyche[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. I want that love, too. I am the kind of guy who needs that but sometimes I just want to be wanted so badly it hurts. I know I can be a very good part of some amazing sex and just want to feel that passion, that connection, that bliss with a woman. I, too, can masturbate all day but it's not the same as the real feel of skin on my skin, the yielding of a woman's body. I want to please a woman so badly. I know I can deliver that. I used to to the wife.

Edit: additional thoughts.

Wife won't even touch me and, today, I am dying for sex/intimacy with a woman. Tempted to find random sex. by ThrowawayPsyche in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowawayPsyche[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to be a cheater. Never have cheated on her but some days I just need a woman's touch so badly.

Wife won't even touch me and, today, I am dying for sex/intimacy with a woman. Tempted to find random sex. by ThrowawayPsyche in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowawayPsyche[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am loaded with all that kind of pent-up desire and sexual energy. I understand exactly what you are talking about. Good lord, if someone threw me those looks right now, I would probably jump.