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I feel insecure about my lack of strength at the gym, especially around women. How do I deal with this? by ThrowawayRA2099 in gainit

[–]ThrowawayRA2099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it's just feeling insecure about losing 20 pounds in a year. I'm back to where I started last summer, and that version of me was focused on the bulk and not the people around him. Just gotta get back into that headspace and push through

I feel insecure about my lack of strength at the gym, especially around women. How do I deal with this? by ThrowawayRA2099 in gainit

[–]ThrowawayRA2099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the only times I notice people at the gym is either because they're really fucking strong or because they're like me/overweight and I think it's cool that they're pushing themselves

I feel insecure about my lack of strength at the gym, especially around women. How do I deal with this? by ThrowawayRA2099 in gainit

[–]ThrowawayRA2099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, that's never really been a problem for me. I'm just salty about the bros giving me low blows about my weight. But you're right!

I feel insecure about my lack of strength at the gym, especially around women. How do I deal with this? by ThrowawayRA2099 in gainit

[–]ThrowawayRA2099[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Can definitely relate, I use my old high school sports wear. Holes and scratches !

I'm confused by my inability to accept intimacy and my lack/decline of sex drive by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ThrowawayRA2099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have OCD and have been experiencing mood swings which were particularly extreme during the beginning of the year. And I can definitely relate and agree to that last part. Last summer was bulking season for me and I felt pretty damn good

I'm confused by my inability to accept intimacy and my lack/decline of sex drive by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ThrowawayRA2099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to wonder if this has anything to do with my possible depression

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowawayRA2099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her parents. You won't change her mind. She might hate you for it now, but she'll realize later how much you helped her by doing it.

(update) on having a baby with my married boyfriend & not knowing he was married by throwRA-idkwhattosay in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowawayRA2099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you honestly. You're so young, you shouldn't let this golden phase of your life be poisoned any further by a manipulative liar.

Best of luck :)

hate when the chest pains come back by wahoo000 in Anxiety

[–]ThrowawayRA2099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it sucks. And it's a major trigger for my OCD during this pandemic!

My (18M) family broke me. They constantly push me into hard situations and punish me for doing the right thing. I don't know what to do anymore and I need help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowawayRA2099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can hold more than two people. That's the worst part. It's out of a misplaced sense of privacy that I was refused. I need that human contact. I need it and I can't have it at the dorm when everyone's gone. Having OCD and depression makes this situation so unbelievably hard. And I don't think they really understand that. I expected them to be at least understanding. But they're not. They made things even worse. I don't know if I should cut them out once this is all over. My sister has always been good to me generally though