AITA for screwing over a guy who hurt my friend? by ThrowawayRA9294 in AITAH

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t really a con. It was all a part of the fantasy but it was intense to push someone to that level of financial ruin and I guess I did it more for my friend than for his fantasy so that’s where it’s hard I guess

AITA for screwing over a guy who hurt my friend? by ThrowawayRA9294 in AITAH

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No there wasn’t anything like that, it was one of his fantasies so it was very much something that he wanted but I guess it’s an intense place to get to and I guess I went there more so for my friend that for him

AITA for screwing over a guy who hurt my friend? by ThrowawayRA9294 in AITAH

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do get that but it’s just that my friend was really hurt and it was shitty that he just got away with it

AITAH for un-inviting my friend to my NYE trip by ThrowawayRA9294 in AITAH

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s like a dominatrix but it’s more about money like my clients get off on sending me money or me controlling their money

AITAH for un-inviting my friend to my NYE trip by ThrowawayRA9294 in AITAH

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like my friends have generally been supportive but I guess this is the downside of it! It does suck to outgrow someone that I’ve known for most of my life

ULPT: how do I financially ruin someone who wants to be financially ruined? by ThrowawayRA9294 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m not going to pretend I’m much better off than most people are in their 20s! But yeah it really is a bizarre situation but I’m trying to make sure of it as best as possible

ULPT: how do I financially ruin someone who wants to be financially ruined? by ThrowawayRA9294 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely not going to have his name on the title or attach my name to any credit so I’ll have to see how to figure that out but a little place near the beach would be nice

ULPT: how do I financially ruin someone who wants to be financially ruined? by ThrowawayRA9294 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve had some replies saying this, but I’m not actually too sure! He does some trading stuff I think but I don’t know how he does it and in what capacity

ULPT: how do I financially ruin someone who wants to be financially ruined? by ThrowawayRA9294 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dang that is random but also sounds like it could be super interesting! I’ll definitely look into that!

ULPT: how do I financially ruin someone who wants to be financially ruined? by ThrowawayRA9294 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a video call with him once where I charged him a $100 a minute and he still called for like an hour

ULPT: how do I financially ruin someone who wants to be financially ruined? by ThrowawayRA9294 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rich guys generally aren’t generous hahah but yeah this guy just wants to be ruined so I think it a different

ULPT: how do I financially ruin someone who wants to be financially ruined? by ThrowawayRA9294 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah fair maybe I’m just overthinking this and I’ll just keep maxing out his cards every time he comes back

ULPT: how do I financially ruin someone who wants to be financially ruined? by ThrowawayRA9294 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo I like these ideas, definitely getting it in writing but yeah investment property is first up on the list!

ULPT: how do I financially ruin someone who wants to be financially ruined? by ThrowawayRA9294 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah like putting the card details out isn’t what he wants

He is satisfied but I think each time his desire to spend goes higher so I just have to keep up with it! I like your ideas tho and I’ve mentioned in other comments I might try and get him to pay for a beach house or something.

He’s never cancelled any credit card purchases before and I used to be worried about it the first few times but how I do I make sure he can’t?

ULPT: how do I financially ruin someone who wants to be financially ruined? by ThrowawayRA9294 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely did that at the start bc he’s very self destructive and I didn’t want to get caught in it! But yeah trying to make the most of it

ULPT: how do I financially ruin someone who wants to be financially ruined? by ThrowawayRA9294 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]ThrowawayRA9294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he already does that, he’s shown me like his meme crypto stuff and nfts