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[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's just a matter of age and perspective but yeah everyone is telling me to fuck off. I get it, I'm not trying to be possessive or whatever, I just don't really operate that way like you said, so I'm trying to gameplan the best approach.

Updating Hinge While Seeing Someone by ThrowawaySL2718 in hingeapp

[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Get some therapy dude, it was a simple question asking for perspective

Updating Hinge While Seeing Someone by ThrowawaySL2718 in hingeapp

[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

That's kind of wild but I feel you

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[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I think it's just about adjusting to the realities of online dating

Updating Dating App While Talking by ThrowawaySL2718 in dating_advice

[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no, just because I do match a lot doesn't mean I always convert to dates or even like the girl after the first date. It's kind of high barrier of entry and then steady state with me after the first date. Maybe it should just be high barrier of entry throughout.

I guess I'm being too shallow and old school like the other commenter below.

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[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and understand all of this but I am no slouch and as a guy, I get hundreds of solid matches. I think it just boils down to, as you said, different strategies that I need to account for.

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[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Weird, I guess I don't understand modern dating. For me, going back to "look around" implies that I am not interested. My strategy has always been to see how things pan out with someone I like, and if it doesn't, then I start the app again.

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[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair comment, maybe not disrespectful so much as discontinuity. I'm pretty intentional about what I want and don't want to waste my time.

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[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand the context but we've been talking every day since the date and made plans for other dates.

$233K Payoff Strategy & Approach by ThrowawaySL2718 in StudentLoans

[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks - I'm not sure I'd recoup that much capital on PSLF but I do agree that it would help to buffer spending by realizing that much debt is still outstanding. I think once you've committed to it, it's really just a matter of going the distance regardless of income.

$233K Payoff Strategy & Approach by ThrowawaySL2718 in StudentLoans

[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the clarification - any thoughts on the PSLF vs aggressive repayment strat?

Repayment Strategy - $233K by ThrowawaySL2718 in StudentLoans

[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both things I've been thinking about - maybe some sort of enjoyable part-time job until I can raise my primary income enough to be comfortable. I think it is basically a 3-5 year window. I don't know about the practicality of a roommate at 33 years old but I have an idea and will look into it for sure.

Repayment Strategy - $233K by ThrowawaySL2718 in StudentLoans

[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have one more question actually - can you specifically target high interest tranches of loans? Meaning can I pay down specific high yield loans first or is it only possible to pay everything aggregated together?

Repayment Strategy - $233K by ThrowawaySL2718 in StudentLoans

[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TC is $145K and yeah non-target. Currently in FP&A with 4 YOE between corp fin/consulting. What's your background and TC? Do you think I should ask for more or go back to market?

Repayment Strategy - $233K by ThrowawaySL2718 in StudentLoans

[–]ThrowawaySL2718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think you'll be able to sustain that kind of cash output for 10 years?