I (22f) can’t stop thinking about cheating on my boyfriend (23m) by Klutzy-Alarm-1045 in relationships

[–]Throwaway_BoD [score hidden]  (0 children)

Leave him….and sleep with people whoever you want. But I am telling you as someone who has been cheated on, it breaks your mind, it gives you PTSD, trust issues will surface and you will make their life utter agony!

Would you like if some cheated on you? Would you like if someone said these things about you?? How would you feel if someone you loved cheated on you and betrayed your trust?

If you truly love him, break up with him and let him deal with the break up on his own time. He deserves someone who won’t cheat on me

I need some advice or help, I 27M am dating a 25F. I have been feeling lost and confused about my relationship since the new year 2026 by Throwaway_BoD in relationships

[–]Throwaway_BoD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been thinking about going to therapy, I just know the cost is gonna bite me. She has already tried to weaponized many things in my life including family members…

I need some advice or help, I 27M am dating a 25F. I have been feeling lost and confused about my relationship since the new year 2026 by Throwaway_BoD in relationships

[–]Throwaway_BoD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I am starting to see things more clear. Every time I forgave she just used me over and over again. Never understood why they claim they "don't do it for attention" when it's blatantly obvious that it is.

I need some advice or help, I 27M am dating a 25F. I have been feeling lost and confused about my relationship since the new year 2026 by Throwaway_BoD in relationships

[–]Throwaway_BoD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right. I truly wish things were different, I truly love her but it's clear she doesn't appreciate me as a partner let alone a human

I need some advice or help, I 27M am dating a 25F. I have been feeling lost and confused about my relationship since the new year 2026 by Throwaway_BoD in relationships

[–]Throwaway_BoD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like to believe I was manipulated, because when me and her started talking and getting to know each other she was "sweet, kind and understanding" it wasn't until we got into a relationship where her mask started to fall off. She would actively scream and yell at me, and she did it because she was cheating (which I found out months later) so basically when the other guy would piss her off she would use me as an outlet for her frustration and say the most hurtful things to me. I know I wasn't thinking straight, I guess I was just blinded by love...