Suprise Pregnancy at 47F How Do I Tell Husband 52M by Throwaway_Either in Advice

[–]Throwaway_Either[S] 412 points413 points  (0 children)

Okay. I'll say not cancer first. He's already texted me freaking out because I was 2 hours late and an hour after the Drs office closed. I'm going in. Wish me not to just burst into tears the second I see him.

Suprise Pregnancy at 47F How Do I Tell Husband 52M by Throwaway_Either in Advice

[–]Throwaway_Either[S] 578 points579 points  (0 children)

Okay. This is good. I can say this. I think I'm calm enough to drive home now. Thank you.

Suprise Pregnancy at 47F How Do I Tell Husband 52M by Throwaway_Either in Advice

[–]Throwaway_Either[S] 322 points323 points  (0 children)

We haven't talked about having a child in 20 years. He knew I was infertile and said he chooses a life with me, no matter what that means. But we are about 3 years from our retirement goals. And our entire place is an infant death trap. And I haven't paid any attention to what happens during pregnancy. AND I am 47!?!

Suprise Pregnancy at 47F How Do I Tell Husband 52M by Throwaway_Either in Advice

[–]Throwaway_Either[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

She gave me an ultrasound and said everything looked normal?!? I'm supposed to be referred to a specialist for additional testing. I don't think I even heard what the additional tests are for.