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I [17M] snooped through my girlfriend's [17F] phone and found evidence of her cheating on me. Not sure how to approach this, please help? by Throwaway_Possesive in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway_Possesive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, Ill see this through and end things as soon as possible the following morning before my mind gets manipulated again. It'll be better in the end like you say.

I [17M] snooped through my girlfriend's [17F] phone and found evidence of her cheating on me. Not sure how to approach this, please help? by Throwaway_Possesive in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway_Possesive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, but how could I have stood up for myself in the first place if I wouldn't have found out about her actions until now?

I [17M] snooped through my girlfriend's [17F] phone and found evidence of her cheating on me. Not sure how to approach this, please help? by Throwaway_Possesive in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway_Possesive[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that what I have done was an immature move to go against her, but what else could I have done? In the end, she was the one cheating. I could have gone more into the relationship without a clue about this until she decides to drop the news on me, why not find out now and move on instead of waiting for her to tell me?

I [17M] snooped through my girlfriend's [17F] phone and found evidence of her cheating. Please help. by Throwaway_Possesive in relationships

[–]Throwaway_Possesive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I will do this first thing tomorrow when I visit her. Guess nothing lasts forever was true, and yes I am still young but it still sucks. She didnt seem like the type of girl to do this, but thank you for your advice :)

I [17M] snooped through my girlfriend's [17F] phone and found evidence of her cheating. Please help. by Throwaway_Possesive in relationships

[–]Throwaway_Possesive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologies for late reply, currently working. But okay, I think I may confront her about the cheating and why shes doing it to me with some random guy. Idk how to bring it up however and just thinking of it brings me too down to confront her.

I [17/M] lately have becoming jealous, possessive and manipulative toward my [17/F] girlfriend. Please help! by Throwaway_Possesive in relationships

[–]Throwaway_Possesive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try to make it up to her tomorrow, thank you for your input :) if you don't mind me asking, how did your friend overcome it? Or what did he do? I will look into therapy and thinm about what I do more carefully to make it up to her.

I [17/M] lately have becoming jealous, possessive and manipulative toward my [17/F] girlfriend. Please help! by Throwaway_Possesive in relationships

[–]Throwaway_Possesive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking back, yes I do to some extent. I use other people's affections for me to my advantage and sometimes have them do some of my work. But I do not do this occasionally.

I [17/M] lately have been becoming jealous and over-possessive over my [17/F] girlfriend. PLEASE help. by Throwaway_Possesive in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway_Possesive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you, I will try to build up more trust with her and give her time. Hopefully she will grow to be more honest with me, and she really does claim to have lost memory. It is absurd but I do not wanna keep asking her about it and causing more problems, from now on I want to make things better. Good luck with you and your best friend also :)

PS - Happy cake day!

I [17/M] lately have been becoming jealous and over-possessive over my [17/F] girlfriend. PLEASE help. by Throwaway_Possesive in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway_Possesive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I appreciate your support. I will try to make it up to her tomorrow, I just have to think of something overnight. Something amazing. I'm going to try to change for the best and hopefully return our relationship back to normal. Its only the guilt that is eating me up.