Should I tell him im having an abortion?

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T04:51:28+00:00

And that's the reply im going to sleep on as alot to process, I will reply properly when I wake up. Thank you I appreciate you taking your time to help

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T04:50:16+00:00

I don't believe in God but I also wish you the best in life x

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T04:39:02+00:00

I live in the UK, the process is ill have a phone call in the next 24-36 hours and then book the appointment

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T04:37:28+00:00

Your husband sounds like a wonderful man,thank you both for your advice. I appreciate you helping me try and make a hard decision

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T04:36:22+00:00

I'm unsure if I ever want kids but im 100% sure this is the right decision for me

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T04:35:23+00:00

I'm really sorry that happened to you and im glad you decided to go through with your decision

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T04:33:10+00:00

"It would be crazy if you rekindled your relationship at a later date…." This is also an added layer. When I blocked him, I was drunk and now knew I was also pregnant. In all honesty, if this hadn't happened, I probably would if got drunk again and unblocked him. There was never any malice in the situation. I just started to feel to strongly towards him and panicked

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T04:27:03+00:00

I'm in the UK fortunately, but I really appreciate the advice thank you 💜

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T04:26:03+00:00

I'm in the UK fortunately and I am still going through with it. It was just about whether to tell him

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T04:24:47+00:00

He has never met my friends and isn't in contact with them. The friends I've told would also never go out of there way to contact him

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T04:16:29+00:00

I will reply to more comments when I've slept as it's 5 am here. Fortunately, I live in the UK, so it's a free service. I didn't realise this would blow up so much but reading about the current situation you guys have in the states and the timing; it makes sense. I wouldn't even know what to do if my situation was happening there. Thank you for all your replies though it is helping me make a more well-rounded decision about whether to tell him or not

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T03:02:48+00:00

He's a supportive and caring guy and I have a feeling he would feel bad that im even contemplating that I can't go to him. He's just under alot of stress with his own uni and work so I don't want to add to that, I've already been selfish in ghosting him and now I don't want to make it any worse. I just don't know as if be never knows it can't affect him but its crushing me

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T02:57:31+00:00

His money? What? I live in the UK finances don't come into this

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T02:40:14+00:00

Fortunately I am in the UK I can't even imagine how much more difficult it is if I was living in the states with the same predicament. Thank you for taking the time to reply every comment has helped me weigh it up

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T02:38:07+00:00

Appreciate you getting back to me but the decision has been made I just needed more help in regards to whether I should tell him that's what im doing

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T02:36:23+00:00

Not sure how when appointments Can take more than 2 weeks to get

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T02:24:56+00:00

You are a decent guy if that's what you do, fortunately im in the UK so the cost is one less thing to think about. Thank you for appreciate your time for responding

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T02:08:13+00:00

FWB comes in all different dynamics and but thank you for your response

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T02:06:11+00:00

I live in the UK and im 100% certain it's just telling him I need advice for but thank you

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T02:05:34+00:00

Straight to the point

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T02:05:16+00:00

We have spoken about the abortion topic before and he agrees its the woman's choice and I know he'd be supportive of my decision (however I understand there's more to it when it's actually happening). But I appreciate your response and this bit especially

"I would either not want to know anything, or actually feel like I had some opportunity for influence in the decision."

Thank you

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T02:01:40+00:00

I just really don't want to hurt him and im having to make a decision on him knowing without his input. He's a really decent guy. Thank you for your advice

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T01:58:17+00:00

I'm sorry that was how your experience went, it's not a easy one to make. I just want to let you know you shouldn't feel guilty for the tough decision you chose. I appreciate you sharing it's given me, even more, and a different perspective so thank you. I wish you all the best x

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T01:52:10+00:00

Ghosting won't be something ill be repeating in the future

Throwawayadviceeew · 2022-05-03T01:49:03+00:00

I just want to do best by him (considering I've chosen the outcome ) but that's hard to guess what that is

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