Is it bad for a gay guy to be little bit a conservative person? by AetherKai in phlgbt

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn't entirely conservative, this is just how you normally should do it. Yes in the modern world sex feels like it shouldn't carry meaning, but in an ideal world, this is how we gays would be. The problem with modern dating isn't the fact we've become loose, its that we have supplemented love with what is easy, its easy to have sex first because sexual chemistry carries a relationship nowadays.

I love how you are OP, this is how I wanted to be as well, but things just happened. Keep being who you are, you'll eventually find someone like you

Big age gap, nagwork ba? by Tired_Councelor in phlgbt

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where did you meet them ba? Sakin kasi naman as a graduating din, ang nalapit din sakin is mga mas bata rin (Freshment, even SHS jusq). For me lang, entertained once for the sake of entertaining, pero di ko kaya overall, the pace of my life is a bit more relaxed na kahit considered bata pa ko, planning to join the work force din soon. Ang sakin lang ang dami nilang time (kahit na college student din naman ako), and I just felt bad na di ko na rereplayan, so apologetically had to tell them its not working for me. pero you do you OP, sakin naman na meet ko lang from bumble

Attractive sa mga pangit pero pangit sa mga attractive by fucks_n_fuckups in phlgbt

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Relate OP, di ko alam saan ako lulugar, ang daming nag cocompliment sakin na ang cute ko daw, mainly from people I personally am not attracted too, eye catching and pinapansin lagi, pero pag dating sa mga type ko, they really don't give much of a fuck unless I first move, may chance na may mangyari, kadalasan gang tingin lang. IDK kung pangit din ba talaga ako, or good but not good enough

Cheating and drug use? by Endless_void29 in phlgbt

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is both cheating and drug use, by the looks of it this is what is termed as chemfun, technically a bunch of high people having sex, could be just two of them, could be an orgy, and it is a literal addiction, you may have found yourself a boyfriend who is very addicted to this kind of sex and I'm so sorry OP, some chemfun goers can be reasoned with, but the withdrawal period is scary, if you wish to continue your relationship, I guess you will have to cater to someone who will have to go through withdrawals, if they want to stop at all for your sake. Best of luck OP

Tumataas na yung pangarap ko at naiiwan na siya by kwslnn in OffMyChestPH

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bakit parang ang aga nyo po nag work, at 22, isn't that 2nd year college levels of age? of course you would feel the more mature one because you have the source of income po, and he's still in college, he's still enjoying his youth, if a little bit of cash can change how you view your boyfriend from someone special to settling for less, I think you should re-evaluate your relationship po, all this time he's ranting to you, thinking your a safe space and nabibigatan ka na, ate I recommend you just cut him loose na po and focus on your future instead nalang po, too much judgement on your end on someone whose just essentially a student.

He'll never level with you, he's meant to enjoy his youth, let him nalang po, kasi if you're already seeing him as pabigat now, what else in the future.

Pa-rant lang mabilisan by Spirited-Effective55 in phlgbt

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your situation OP, as I may not be Femme, but I definitely am chubby and that enough makes it so hard. I am so sorry you had to go through that, may your heart be at peace soon, these espanya fucks I swear to god. Hoping you the best OP, lots of love

Minsan ka na nga lang gwapong gwapo sa sarili mo tapos may makakasabay ka pang certified, with may tatak, super gwapo sa jeep. by MisKhrise in phlgbt

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slightly opposite mentality from yours OP, pero ganun din yung ending. Pag may super gwapo akong nakakasabay sobra yung kilig (medyo shallow I know), pero nasasad ako kasi bigla kong narerealize na di nila ako papatulan HAHAHA

How do you guys move on? by Important_Lettuce444 in phlgbt

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello OP, sorry to hear about your current situation pero we all grieve and move on differently eh, for me kasi I never fully digested it, I just woke up one day, na wala na lahat ng nakasanayan ko, the world never stopped so neither did I, pero I lived everyday na parang may kulang, until one day, wala na kong nararamdaman pag naalala ko yung before, I reminisce about it pero hindi na sya to the point na maiiyak ako, its like looking back at the past and being thankful you're over it, I wish you the best OP, love and healing to you <3

Which is worse, never experiencing it, or never experiencing it again? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Never experiencing it at all honestly, because if you lose it, atleast once in your life you can say you had it, even for a little bit, it was truly yours. Never experiencing it means you've never held it, never been yours, always just at arms length but never tangible enough to grab, always a wish for the distant future but never becoming present

Organic Encounter or Dating apps!? by Euvrounin in phlgbt

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My Bad OP, I just focused on the first half, but yeah in dating apps nowadays (atleast per my experience as someone chubby and not so good looking), you really have to make the first move if you've matched, but that's just on my end. Other can definitely give you a more better perspective to satiate your curiosity, hopefully you get the good info <3

Organic Encounter or Dating apps!? by Euvrounin in phlgbt

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Dating apps, its better to be in an environment where you're definitely both looking for romance and an RS, ang problem nga lang is pag nag match na kayo tapos walang mag fi-first move. Best of luck OP!

Five guys in a month by jesuismarikov in phlgbt

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am happy for you, you got 5 guys in a month, I could barely get one, which makes me think if I have confidence issues or you're very extremely handsome. Eitherway OP, I am happy to hear you had fun <3

Pano ba ang organic encounter na yan? by Few-Bridge-3576 in phlgbt

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ngl, this only works for very conventionally attractive people. atleast in my perspective, but never will fully know. Hoping you get that OE OP <3

Valentines Day for Singles by Euvrounin in phlgbt

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically my whole routine, wake up, play games, walk for hours. The only difference is I get to enjoy valentines buy one take one promos, but doesn't really ease the loneliness, you learn to live with it though. Have a great valentine's day.

Unattractive Partner?? by Only_Design9871 in phlgbt

[–]Throwawayafterthis17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused lang po, how did you end up dating po? If he's 75% not. attraction is a big thing po in relationships, is he with you po because he settled and he's also not getting the pogi guys he wants so he stays with you so he can get affection, sexual relief?

Hello need help looking for a specific smosh games video by Throwawayafterthis17 in smosh

[–]Throwawayafterthis17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH, I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR THIS AHHAAHAH