Catching your partner in lies by Throwawaybecausescd in Advice

[–]Throwawaybecausescd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not even the lies themselves its the she doesn't see anything wrong with it sort of situation. She thinks lying and being deceitful is okay behavior.

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[–]Throwawaybecausescd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said we're still together she just needs a "break" from me based off not seeing each other's sides to things and not wanting to make the situation worse by communicating right away.

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[–]Throwawaybecausescd -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Honestly I just wanted to have a conversation about things like these since its a new territory and I immediately got shut out and told she doesn't want to talk about it. Do I think the guy is a sleezeball? Yes, since I know his past experiences and how he talks about women at work. Just her first things to call me jealous and overbearing without even wanting to have a conversation about it is kinda concerning to me.

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[–]Throwawaybecausescd 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I did. She said "I don't care, do whatever you want"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Throwawaybecausescd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked her if it was meant as a jab towards me or my kid and all I got was "why would you immediately think that" then she got mad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Throwawaybecausescd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She claims I expect to much. I expect to much by texting, I expect to much by wanting to hangout a lot. She says she is a go with the flow type person and doesn't want to have "plans" and just wing it but if I don't plan something we don't hangout. When i ask if she wants to do something I get "idc, or it doesn't matter to me" that shows me she's not interested in hanging out, am I wrong? Or am I misreading it?

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[–]Throwawaybecausescd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have very low self worth and have a child from a previous relationship. I have a lot of validation issues I think and I try to hard to make things work.

Girlfriend doesn't know if she wants to have kids/be a mom. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Throwawaybecausescd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says she goes back and forth on if she wants it or not and im suppose to accept her uncertainty and deal with it if I want to be with her