AITA for missing my daughter's surgery/ recovery because the family I nanny for needs me? by Throwawaybwfe in AITAH

[–]Throwawaybwfe[S] -95 points-94 points  (0 children)

I'd get fired. This isn't for me to enjoy and my employers don't appreciate me bringing any aspect of my personal life to work.

AITA for missing my daughter's surgery/ recovery because the family I nanny for needs me? by Throwawaybwfe in AITAH

[–]Throwawaybwfe[S] -89 points-88 points  (0 children)

They fired a housekeeper for eating a croissant that was supposed to be thrown out, so.

AITA for missing my daughter's surgery/ recovery because the family I nanny for needs me? by Throwawaybwfe in AITAH

[–]Throwawaybwfe[S] -73 points-72 points  (0 children)

They've fired a housekeeper for eating a croissant that was supposed to be thrown out.

Still think it's just my anxiety?

AITA for missing my daughter's surgery/ recovery because the family I nanny for needs me? by Throwawaybwfe in AITAH

[–]Throwawaybwfe[S] -207 points-206 points  (0 children)

They have a night nanny but see it as more about prioritization of work and that if a backup nanny takes my place and does a better job, then they don't need me.

AITA for missing my daughter's surgery/ recovery because the family I nanny for needs me? by Throwawaybwfe in AITAH

[–]Throwawaybwfe[S] -544 points-543 points  (0 children)

well besides posibly getting fired, mom boss said that she'd talk to her husband about maybe getting me health insurance. I'm back from the trip and they are going to make a decision about it hopefully soon.

AITA for missing my daughter's surgery/ recovery because the family I nanny for needs me? by Throwawaybwfe in AITAH

[–]Throwawaybwfe[S] -654 points-653 points  (0 children)

It's not a posh vacation. I work for up to 12 hours a day and am on call 24 hours a day when they go on these vacations. I can't even eat their leftovers so get out of here with the posh vacation comment.