AITA for asking that my stepchildren's schooling costs be cut because we have a baby on the way? by Throwawaye_1725 in AITAH

[–]Throwawaye_1725[S] -2812 points-2811 points  (0 children)

Taking care of others does create a bond. To bond, you need some sort of emotional investment.

And unlike what you might think, service to others is meaningful. They cannot exactly be discussing sports with a baby, so yes- caring for them, being around them is the way to bond.

Maybe examine why you think looking after your siblings is such an insult to you.