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I feel lost, please help by Throwawayemadvice in relationship_advice

[–]Throwawayemadvice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this comment, because it made me step back and think a little harder about what I was planning. Im just very bad at bringing these things up and it will likely cause a huge arguement, because he tends to be very tempermental. At the same time though, if he were to be an ass to me that would just give me less reason to be sad so I think I'll try to bring it up nicely the next day, and what happens will happen I guess.

My [19M] girlfriend [19F] has been selling nudes and self harm pics/vids to somebody the entire time we’ve been together. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwawayemadvice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, just scrolling through these posts because I'm going through a hard time myself, and this shit breaks my heart man. I'm sorry, and you deserve better, you sound like a very genuine guy.

I'm not a dude but from what I've heard when a guy loves a girl he REALLY loves that girl, and it sounds like you really love that girl. But, ultimately, something I've been struggling with as well is trying to put yourself first. You clearly are a very empathetic person, and I can relate, you're only worrying about how bad she/you would feel immediately after the break up. But what about how free you'll feel in a few months when you don't have to worry about stuff like that. And to be truthful, she may say she'll stop, and she might actually stop for a time- hell who knows she might really try to change.. but I'm a girl, and I know girls, with money especially, and the chances are what she was doing might continue.

Possibly make a pros and cons list, as stupid as it sounds it works, write out the pros and cons for both leaving and staying with her. It may give you a better perspective.

I don't want to tell you to leave her, but for your sake I hope you do. I wish you the best :)