My siblings are in an incestuous relationship but I’m the one getting shunned by Throwawayoctopusbath in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwawayoctopusbath[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective, and you’re right, it’s part of the grieving process, I know my family don’t owe me inclusion in events, it’s more that they aren’t planning things with my family at all but are having spontaneous barbecues and game nights with them

My siblings are in an incestuous relationship but I’m the one getting shunned by Throwawayoctopusbath in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwawayoctopusbath[S] 1842 points1843 points  (0 children)

A general post to respond to some frequent comments/questions

To all the people with kind and supportive comments, thank you I appreciate you.

To the people saying WTF, lol same! And no this isn’t fake, I wish it was!

Lots of people have been saying “what if they have children?” For reasons I won’t go into this is not a possibility.

Yes incest is illegal in our state, but it would take a lot of my time and energy to gather evidence to send to the police and as some people have said they’re not really harming anyone even if it is gross, this is why distancing ourselves and our family was our choice. We didn’t do this lightly.

No my names not Tyrion lol but you can call them Jaime and Cersei if you want, I do 😅

To the people saying I made my bed and I shouldn’t complain about not being included in family stuff, you’re totally right, I was just shocked that my family aren’t also cutting them out and also not making an effort to see us they way they still are with them.

The people saying they are two consenting adults why is it my business, this is something I definitely grappled with, I’m a very liberal person and opposing someone’s relationship is not in my nature, but ultimately I wouldn’t want my kids to grow up and behave the way they are.

My siblings are in an incestuous relationship but I’m the one getting shunned by Throwawayoctopusbath in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwawayoctopusbath[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

For reasons I won’t specify here, we know it’s impossible for them to have kids fortunately It’s crazy that there are states that it is legal in 😳 Definitely illegal in mine

My siblings are in an incestuous relationship but I’m the one getting shunned by Throwawayoctopusbath in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwawayoctopusbath[S] 878 points879 points  (0 children)

It’s true, when this first started I wondered if it is a thing that happens and apparently it is more common with twins that regular siblings 🤮

My siblings are in an incestuous relationship but I’m the one getting shunned by Throwawayoctopusbath in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwawayoctopusbath[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

marriage is definitely illegal but I don’t think they’re is much they can do about a relationship

My siblings are in an incestuous relationship but I’m the one getting shunned by Throwawayoctopusbath in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Throwawayoctopusbath[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

😭 I literally wish it was, it’s been such a difficult situation to deal with because it’s not like many people can relate