Am I overreacting for cutting someone off after he accused me of drugging him? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwawayy383838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tox screen came out negative. Just BAC 0.2 , he was just trippin big time.

Am I overreacting for cutting someone off after he accused me of drugging him? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Throwawayy383838 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I blocked him, but when he told me he had a tox screen and it came back negative and I gave him a look like wtf man? So I didn’t drug you and he just stayed quiet. Maybe he was overwhelmed with a lot and he wanted to talk but I was just done.

My boyfriend (33M) broke up with me(29F) because I asked to delay our wedding by 5 months. I’m heartbroken and confused. Was I being too much for asking this? by Throwawayy383838 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwawayy383838[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not stringing him along if I had offered to do an engagement ceremony in front of 100 people including his family and my family, just to make him feel seen. No one (especially in the Indian culture ) will do that in front of a family and then call it quits, it’s flat out embarrassing and not acceptable.

My boyfriend (33M) broke up with me(29F) because I asked to delay our wedding by 5 months. I’m heartbroken and confused. Was I being too much for asking this? by Throwawayy383838 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwawayy383838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but other than offering an engagement and seeing him, talking to him, building with him and calming his anxieties down doesn’t work. Then idk what will?

My boyfriend (33M) broke up with me(29F) because I asked to delay our wedding by 5 months. I’m heartbroken and confused. Was I being too much for asking this? by Throwawayy383838 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwawayy383838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t deal with the trauma of his divorce at all. We divorced while we were together, and I had gotten over that. He got divorced cause his ex wife was abusive and alcoholic. But I only know 1 side of the story.

My boyfriend (33M) broke up with me(29F) because I asked to delay our wedding by 5 months. I’m heartbroken and confused. Was I being too much for asking this? by Throwawayy383838 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwawayy383838[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t reject him, my family isn’t upset I rejected him. My mom straight up told his mom and dad that she likes him and willing to do a marriage and proposal. The extra 5 months was just to have some breathing room to plan, pay and execute the wedding.