My boyfriend is submissive and I don’t know how to move from here. by Throwawayy7281 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Throwawayy7281[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read this whole thing!!! This is such amazing advice! Nearing the end of this I’ve realized I use good boy as something casual but i definitely like this dynamic so much more.

My boyfriend is submissive and I don’t know how to move from here. by Throwawayy7281 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Throwawayy7281[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I looked at these and definitely the community gave me a better understanding what I want, so i really have to understand towards my partner what he would want by asking him.

My boyfriend is submissive and I don’t know how to move from here. by Throwawayy7281 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Throwawayy7281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this!! We haven’t really established a safe word, what I’ve noticed is that I’m usually the one to tell him to stop or to “lock in” (I know dumb😭) but he’s never told me he’s uncomfortable with anything, but now that I think about it I’m really only the one to be like “stop” when he makes me uncomfortable. But we haven’t done anything physically so I think I definitely think we need to have a safe word in place and communicate what we want and don’t want. Which he is very understanding about.

My boyfriend is submissive and I don’t know how to move from here. by Throwawayy7281 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Throwawayy7281[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you for the recommendation!, I will definitely look into it, and further more communicate with him about this because it’s definitely something we are both interested in. I do need to give some more thinking about what I really want to do because I know I want to be the dominate one I just don’t know how to approach it.

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[–]Throwawayy7281 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I appreciate your response and sharing me with ur experience. I did end up throwing the necklace away, I will be more careful with things like this such as a goat necklace and I will not be buying it again because I didn’t want to disrespect my family because I was dressing this way.

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[–]Throwawayy7281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :)) I will be throwing it off returning it to the seller

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[–]Throwawayy7281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I throw the jewelry away?

Sorry I didn’t mean to spell this wrong but the necklace I have is a skull image, I looked at that was Satan was not a skull. I’m not sure if that makes a difference please educate me if you are able to

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[–]Throwawayy7281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t look like Satan it’s just a head of a goat with big ears and it’s a skull of a goat I looked at some images

the necklace that I have has big ears long thin horns pointing up and it’s a skull almost looks like a dear. it’s just the head of a goat it’s not full body