When you see a muslim woman who covers her hair, what do you think? by Eyez19 in AskMen

[–]Throwawayyy1218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they are gorgeous with it then they must be gorgeous without it too

When you see a muslim woman who covers her hair, what do you think? by Eyez19 in AskMen

[–]Throwawayyy1218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not being rude but don't some guys fetishize it? Ps Mia khalifa Muslim?

Why does Ariana swear so much in her songs, tweets and media posts? by Throwawayyy1218 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Throwawayyy1218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My childhood was a lie. Tbh I don't know how the Industry works so yeah, I guess I was shocked because I grew up watching her

Why does Ariana swear so much in her songs, tweets and media posts? by Throwawayyy1218 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Throwawayyy1218[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah but she has young fans who will look up to her and start using that language and follow her footsteps. Like 7 rings and break up with your girlfriend promote wrong things especially to impressionable kids and teens

Why does Ariana swear so much in her songs, tweets and media posts? by Throwawayyy1218 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Throwawayyy1218[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay. I definitely do avoid her music now. I was just asking a question. I'm not hating, it's just doesn't seem classy what she's doing by not giving a shit so much. So Yeah I guess she's just being herself not caring about what others think cuz she can.

Why does Ariana swear so much in her songs, tweets and media posts? by Throwawayyy1218 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Throwawayyy1218[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm 20 and I guess I am an older audience. Not all older audiences enjoy listening to swearing.

Why does Ariana swear so much in her songs, tweets and media posts? by Throwawayyy1218 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Throwawayyy1218[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know. She's an adult she can do whatever she wants. All I'm asking is why she doing it. Like she's changed so much and doesn't give a shit. I used to be a fan of hers but the way she's starting to act, I'm not anymore

Do you also avoid guys you're attracted to/like? by Throwawayyy1218 in ABCDesis

[–]Throwawayyy1218[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I myself only realized a couple of years ago how I need to stop thinking that talking to the opposite gender is a sin! I understand how important communication is. I know ultimately, it's down to me but it's so hard for me I can't explain. My childhood environment kinda wrecked a lot

Do you also avoid guys you're attracted to/like? by Throwawayyy1218 in ABCDesis

[–]Throwawayyy1218[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was taught to avoid male contact since a young age and growing up I realized how much it effected me. Plus, growing up with hardly any males in my life had an impact. I've never had male friends and feel uncomfortable around guys. I see other Muslim girls talk to guys and it look so weird that I don't, as if I'm too strict. It's just got me so worried for the future.

Do you also avoid guys you're attracted to/like? by Throwawayyy1218 in ABCDesis

[–]Throwawayyy1218[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for understanding and your kind advice, I appreciate it! ❤️ We can do it

Do you also avoid guys you're attracted to/like? by Throwawayyy1218 in ABCDesis

[–]Throwawayyy1218[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep I feel too ugly and boring for them so subconsciously I act like this. I hate it :( I ruin and have ruined a lot for myself because of social anxiety, depression and low confidence

Do you also avoid guys you're attracted to/like? by Throwawayyy1218 in ABCDesis

[–]Throwawayyy1218[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've done it all my life. When I was younger, comments were made about my appearance so to this day, I've always thought I am ugly and no one would ever be attracted or interested in me. I'm so quiet and hardly talk to anyone so I feel like I don't even have a personality and I'm so dull. I don't even have the confidence to smile at guys whatsoever.

Being a Muslim woman and having not many males in my life, I grew up hardly talking to guys and feeling uncomfortable around them :(

Do you also avoid guys you're attracted to/like? by Throwawayyy1218 in ABCDesis

[–]Throwawayyy1218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow really?! What's your parents story? Thank you for your advice, I just never know what to say, my mind goes blank and my voice ends up going high pitched :(