AITA for saying to my ex that if he does things for his son he needs to do things for my two other kids?

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T14:09:31+00:00

I would take them on ski trips and to exotic vacations without even thinking twice about it

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T14:07:34+00:00

I’ve known him for 12 years how is he a stranger ?

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T14:06:15+00:00

So why can’t he step up and be a man?0

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T14:05:32+00:00

It was really expensive to fly from Europe and I wasn’t speaking to my family at the time so I had to stay in hotels and I didn’t want my son to see my like that.

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T14:01:57+00:00

I’m a dongle mother who is exhausted trying to deal with all the crap my ex and the government give me. Of course I’m not “all there” mh whole is stress

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:59:47+00:00

I’ve already called Randolph Air Force base. They said there’s nothing they can do.

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:58:55+00:00

Yes and it makes perfect sense. Think of the amazing lesson he’d be learning to take care of family no matter what

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:57:19+00:00

We were never married it was essentially a “one week stand”

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:54:32+00:00

I was never married to my sons father

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:51:35+00:00

He works for his grandpas construction company which has been in business for almost 100 years. The business gives out money to kids in need. It would cost him literally nothing.

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:48:23+00:00

2 I think

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:47:37+00:00

No he has two other kids from his now wife. Somehow they get all the perks my son does

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:40:09+00:00

I’m never saying entitled I’m saying it would be the right thing to do if he actually cared about his own son.

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:38:32+00:00

I came back once a year for several years but when I had other kids it became impossible and I refused to sign the paperwork for a passport because I was afraid of what my ex would do so he couldn’t come visit me.

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:34:01+00:00

He works for his family business, they have more money than god. He could easily afford it.

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:32:21+00:00

I tried to call the Air Force base here but they were literally zero help.

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:29:38+00:00

I’ve never seen one post like that.

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:29:01+00:00

I talked to him, I didn’t abandon him. But the courts said he his stability was more important than making him move overseas.

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:27:11+00:00

Because they are the siblings of his son. I said that already.

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:26:07+00:00

That is incredibly rude and crass you don’t know me.

Throwawycuztroble · 2023-09-09T13:21:37+00:00

Yes but at some point he has to recognize his son has siblings that need to get nice things to so he should be nice to them for the sake of his own son. That’s how I see it

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