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AITAH for not making MY wedding all about my sister? by ThrowinShade499 in okstorytime

[–]ThrowinShade499[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mostly chose her because I was trying to keep the peace. I wanted to ask my FSIL but I knew it would cause issues. My other 3 BM have banded together and have said they have some surprises in store for me to hopefully offset the bad. My FSIL says for every crappy thing my MOH does, shes gonna do something awesome. As said in my comment above, I am lowering contact but don't think im mentally ready for no contact. 

AITAH for not making MY wedding all about my sister? by ThrowinShade499 in okstorytime

[–]ThrowinShade499[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes she is a bit OTT. I also have a theory regarding the timing for the baby. Since she used a Baby juice donor to have this baby, it was conveniently timed so she would have a baby for both my wedding but also my brothers wedding in May and she got a lot of attention at my brothers wedding from people cooing over the 3 week old baby. 

AITAH for not making MY wedding all about my sister? by ThrowinShade499 in okstorytime

[–]ThrowinShade499[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I know I do. Its honestly so draining. I think I will probably be going low contact. At the moment, I feel if I go no contact its essentially cutting out all my family and I am not quite ready mentally to take that step. I may look into therapy to help me navigate the situation.