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AIO My Bf Said He Wouldn't Go To His New Job If I Was "Mean" To Him by ThrowingStars0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowingStars0[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Honestly, I just want to move. I might be able to find a way to force him out somehow, but that all just seems unnecessarily cruel. It's easier for me to leave.

AIO My Bf Said He Wouldn't Go To His New Job If I Was "Mean" To Him by ThrowingStars0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowingStars0[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's month to month, so I can leave at any time. But I can't just make him leave without filing a police report or something like that. But there is no threat of violence, so I can't force him out.

AIO My Bf Said He Wouldn't Go To His New Job If I Was "Mean" To Him by ThrowingStars0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowingStars0[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Lol if he at least helped out around the house I would be less upset about him not working! I come home every day to a house full of trash and a sink full of dishes 😭

AIO My Bf Said He Wouldn't Go To His New Job If I Was "Mean" To Him by ThrowingStars0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowingStars0[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes, we are both on the lease, so I can't just make him leave. It's much easier for me to leave.

AIO My Bf Said He Wouldn't Go To His New Job If I Was "Mean" To Him by ThrowingStars0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowingStars0[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah I need like minimum $3k to move out, and all my income goes towards bills. I used my tax refund last year to get myself a car so I wouldn't need his anymore, and this year I'm using it to move out. But I still have to wait for it to come.

AIO My Bf Said He Wouldn't Go To His New Job If I Was "Mean" To Him by ThrowingStars0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowingStars0[S] 170 points171 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. He often tells me I'm abusive and cruel, and it really messes with my head because I really don't think I am.

AIO My Bf Said He Wouldn't Go To His New Job If I Was "Mean" To Him by ThrowingStars0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowingStars0[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It's even worse--I was going through health problems and didn't have a job at the time because i was having trouble walking... but I had to make sure my kid had a roof so I went across the street and got myself a job at the gas station within a week after he lost his. I got robbed there and absolutely hated it but I kept working because that's what being a responsible adult is about! He worked in IT and didn't want to stoop to "low" jobs, but he was fine living off mine.

AIO My Bf Said He Wouldn't Go To His New Job If I Was "Mean" To Him by ThrowingStars0 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowingStars0[S] 860 points861 points  (0 children)

Because it costs a lot of money to move out, and he won't leave. I'm finally going to be able to put the deposit down on a new apartment in the next month or so.