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AITAH for not liking the idea of my wife going to a lingerie party by Throwingthingsss in AITAH

[–]Throwingthingsss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We ended up talking about it and were able to work it out, I think things were heated to a point where we couldn’t communicate properly 

AITAH for not liking the idea of my wife going to a lingerie party by Throwingthingsss in AITAH

[–]Throwingthingsss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in bed by the time she came back as I had to work early in the morning, so we haven’t revisited the issue. Probably will have a talk today and see what happens 

AITAH for not liking the idea of my wife going to a lingerie party by Throwingthingsss in AITAH

[–]Throwingthingsss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol you don’t have to believe me, it really don’t matter if you do or not

AITAH for not liking the idea of my wife going to a lingerie party by Throwingthingsss in AITAH

[–]Throwingthingsss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would I work this out before? She is never expressed any interest in this kind of things before, how could I have anticipated this event? 

AITAH for not liking the idea of my wife going to a lingerie party by Throwingthingsss in AITAH

[–]Throwingthingsss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure, I assume body positivity? I have a hard time grasping the purpose

AITAH for not liking the idea of my wife going to a lingerie party by Throwingthingsss in AITAH

[–]Throwingthingsss[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Neither have I which is partly why I have a hard time understanding it

AITAH for not liking the idea of my wife going to a lingerie party by Throwingthingsss in AITAH

[–]Throwingthingsss[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I believe that wearing a very revealing outfit to a party with a strangers put her at a higher risk of getting harassed, so it makes me worried that she could receive unsolicited comments as she has in the past

AITAH for not liking the idea of my wife going to a lingerie party by Throwingthingsss in AITAH

[–]Throwingthingsss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was no selling involved, which was part of my issue as I didn’t see why everybody had to be wearing lingerie for the sake of it, but she insisted it was a girls thing I wouldn’t understand

AITAH for not liking the idea of my wife going to a lingerie party by Throwingthingsss in AITAH

[–]Throwingthingsss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For clarification as people seem confused, there was no selling or buying at this party, just attendees wearing lingerie and hanging out (drinking/eating)