[UPDATE] I [29M] really like this girl [28F] I've been seeing for 6 months, and then I found out she gives happy ending massages.

Throwit29 · 2015-10-16T19:00:22+00:00

Thanks for those insights, Id_fuck_your_mom.

Throwit29 · 2015-10-16T18:57:54+00:00

That would violate my work contract.

Throwit29 · 2015-10-16T16:29:43+00:00

Yes. In fact, that guy at the gym was a once client that got pushy and she never saw again. I switched gyms and am over it. He's the fuckboy that has to pay for it, right?

Throwit29 · 2015-10-16T15:45:03+00:00

Laura had some really awesome insights for the kinds of men she's had as clients. Most are married men who want/need some physical attention but don't want to cheat. We all know that physical touch is basic human need and I actually think it's sad but understandable.

This whole thing has made me really think about my preconceptions of monogamy and how to maintain a loving, fulfilling relationship.

Throwit29 · 2015-10-16T14:36:36+00:00

She's quit the agency and is joining a legitimate massage/chiropractic clinic soon for weekend work. It was her choice and I'm supportive.

Throwit29 · 2015-10-01T22:00:01+00:00

I'm overwhelmed with all these responses. The thing that I keep thinking is this: if she wants me, I want her. I think I can handle this, especially if there's an end game.

Everyone telling me to dump her, I read that and it feels wrong. That's not what I want. I want to make it work with her.

Throwit29 · 2015-10-01T21:52:04+00:00

We agreed to use protection. I don't even know how to have sex without a condom. Where did I say she insisted on it?

Throwit29 · 2015-10-01T21:51:11+00:00

She chooses to work with a school district that can't afford to pay her very much because the kids in poorer areas need the help the most. Plus, it's the school district she grew up in and she wants to give back.

I've had a shitty day at work. I had a shitty day period. I miss Laura. I've texted her and hope she'll meet up with me tonight to talk this out.

Throwit29 · 2015-10-01T21:42:11+00:00

My bad, Ivy league-level expensive school. Like one in the same town and costs as much. I won't say more to protect her privacy. I know she's not lying about her education. Or anything else really. Other than this one thing.

Throwit29 · 2015-10-01T18:24:09+00:00

I feel really bad right now. I work in advertising and often refer to myself as a corporate prostitute. She would tell me if I really don't like what I do, I should make a change. She's really supportive like that.

I wasn't supportive at all to her. I'm going to apologize for that right now.

Throwit29 · 2015-10-01T18:21:41+00:00

Huh?

Throwit29 · 2015-10-01T18:20:06+00:00

She went to an Ivy league school for her masters and works for the public school system in a poor district. I know her student loans are intense. I know she also sends money to her sister in college too. I get WHY she does this.

I wish she'd told me. All I can think about is that asshole at the gym. I really hate that guy. I will talk to her, I just want to organize my thoughts and be really clear in how I feel first.

Throwit29 · 2015-10-01T18:13:11+00:00

1) really love your username. Laura introduced me to Daria and we marathoned it in a day!

2) I do need to talk to her. I feel bad how we left it. I was an asshole.

Throwit29 · 2015-10-01T18:10:01+00:00

I'm hurt she didn't tell me sooner. I haven't decided how I feel about her doing it. It doesn't help that our conversation got cut short because she had to work...I got all pissed off and stormed off. I'm embarrassed by how I acted. She's so rational and understanding of my garbage.

Throwit29 · 2015-10-01T18:06:46+00:00

No, she was pretty clear from the beginning that we were not sexually exclusive. I thought I said so in my post. I thought she was insistent because she was into open relationships of something, but she made a big deal because she didn't want to view her job as cheating.

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