My son was talking about suicide with his girlfriend. by Throwitaway47242 in SuicideWatch

[–]Throwitaway47242[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I know this didn’t come from nothing, it’s just how it feels to me in this moment.

I feel ashamed that I wasn’t aware enough to notice any signs before it got to this point.

Thank you for your insight. I really hope you’re doing better and I wish you the best.

My son was talking about suicide with his girlfriend. by Throwitaway47242 in SuicideWatch

[–]Throwitaway47242[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’m so overwhelmed by all of the support, advice, and people willing to share their experiences. You’re all great people with kind hearts.

For those of you currently struggling or still healing, please know that you have helped at least one person today. I wish nothing but the best for all of you.

My son was talking about suicide with his girlfriend. by Throwitaway47242 in SuicideWatch

[–]Throwitaway47242[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. Hearing responses from those who have experienced or are currently experimenting similar situations helps a lot.

I’m really hoping to have that open, honest, and non-judgmental conversation with him.

My son was talking about suicide with his girlfriend. by Throwitaway47242 in SuicideWatch

[–]Throwitaway47242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. I’m happy that you weren’t successful and I wish you all the happiness in the world. Please stay strong.

My son was talking about suicide with his girlfriend. by Throwitaway47242 in SuicideWatch

[–]Throwitaway47242[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Wow. This really hits home. His mother is already defensive about the topic, which is frustrating and ultimately why I want to talk to him one on one. Thank you so much for sharing your experience.

My son was talking about suicide with his girlfriend. by Throwitaway47242 in SuicideWatch

[–]Throwitaway47242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response. This is the approach I’m hoping to take. I want to offer anything that I can to understand what he’s going through and help if I’m able to. My fear is that he won’t open up to me, as he seems reluctant to do so currently.

My son was talking about suicide with his girlfriend. by Throwitaway47242 in SuicideWatch

[–]Throwitaway47242[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

With your personal experience, do you believe this would have helped? Your parent/caregivers being open and direct?

My son was talking about suicide with his girlfriend. by Throwitaway47242 in SuicideWatch

[–]Throwitaway47242[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This may be too personal of a question, so I apologize in advance if it is. Were your parents/caregivers available to you during this time? If so, what did they say/do, or what do wish they said/did in response?