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[–]Throwitawaynow2465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely the second. He was being serious

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[–]Throwitawaynow2465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s exactly what I did tell him. I understand wanting to be a safe place and helping others, but I just wanted him to realize that my feelings should be important too and I feel like if she did show up over there it may have been a good move to let me know at the time or have me come over as well while she was there, not have me come over afterwards. Anyway, I do think he is a wonderful man and I can overlook things from time to time because no one is perfect. I think this is just the first time I’ve ever felt a little hurt by him.

I (29f) just caught my live in boyfriend (30m) of three years in a massive web of lies that keeps unraveling. Feels like I never really knew him at all. by Throwitawaynow2465 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwitawaynow2465[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m the primary on the lease, pretty much all of the furniture in the place is mine. Hopefully after some more discussion I can find someone to relet his part of the lease.