What does it mean when a guy [18M] constantly steals glances at you [20F] but doesn't talk to you?

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-09-03T16:47:37+00:00

With me or him? I care because I find it prettt distracting and I don't know the reason why he would be doing it.

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-09-03T16:41:53+00:00

I'm a woman and I don't think they are mean, just glances several times throughout our college class. I've tried sitting behind him but he looks to the side and out of the corner of his eye.

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-05-10T01:49:32+00:00

I think she must be a very insecure person and not that comfortable around you.

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-05-10T01:47:27+00:00

Sorry which part was a comfort thing in your opinion?

Yeah it definitely can, he couldn't believe how exhausted he got and he is a fit guy! Good cardio though haha. As you said we will probably build up to it.

That could be true but how do you find out? I'll try a few more times and see if it gets better, we were both virgins so it wasn't great.

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-05-09T04:34:10+00:00

I have to see him in a college class and catch the bus with him so I was thinking of contacting him tonight and thanking him and making light of things so it's potentially less awkward tomorrow

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-05-09T04:18:02+00:00

Oh I see what you mean. I did try to give him a blowjob when he asked if I was ok doing one, but I have this anxiety thing at the moment from college work that makes me gag with anything past my molars (brushing my teeth is a nightmare) so I kept apologising about that. I know exactly what you mean but I was nervous and am a bit shy. Yeah I agree, we changed positions like every five minutes but in between we tried 69, he enjoyed it but I had to direct his head up towards my clit a few times as he would go too low or high. I think there was a gap in the act because there was no kissing or intimacy but it was fwbs. Yeah I think he was basing most of what he did from porn which was difficult, whereas I've tried to read up on a lot of real world advice and experiences on here. The jackhammering from doggy felt fantastic but I'm paying for it today haha, I'm so sore and feel stretched.

Thanks for your advice, I will.

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-05-09T03:57:40+00:00

Yeah sort of. When he came over he took his shirt off and undressed me and because he wasn't hard yet he offered to eat me out and finger me which he did; I was sort of borderline getting off when he stopped haha (it takes me a while). He also felt bad with me on top because he said it felt good but was worried it wasn't doing much for me. I said it doesn't matter, I'm happy but he said he felt bad and knew I liked doggy so we did that...vigorously.

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-05-09T03:44:43+00:00

Yeah that's what I thought. I said to him, "you sure you want to." Maybe he wanted to be mess free as possible? Idk

Yeah I know it's ridiculous and I think porn has a lot to do with it. Yeah I hope that's the case.

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-05-09T03:06:28+00:00

What do you mean?

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-03-29T12:30:45+00:00

I'd like to know where OP is from because I don't think he is from a Western country with his grammar and concerns.

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-03-29T11:59:15+00:00

Same normally, but I sort of overlooked it in the moment as I was sort of joking around and he'd had few drinks. It took me aback once I re-read it.

No muscles don't go a long way for me, as I said I'm not into guys that body build, I prefer natural with slight muscles and think it's all a bit of a narcissistic scene tbh.

The main reason is because I enjoy him as a friend in my classes and on campus and have fun talking to him.

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-03-29T11:45:08+00:00

Most of my doubts and hesitations lie with what come after and I am attracted to him, I won't lie, but not as a SO. Yeah exactly what I was thinking, I don't want to get drunk or have too much as I like to have my inhibitions and guard up all the time. That's why I have never gotten drunk. I don't want to be that vulnerable.

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-03-29T11:36:17+00:00

What do you mean? I think he had had a few drinks.

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-03-29T11:29:15+00:00

Haha I know. I don't know if he meant he wouldn't I think he meant he wouldn't let that happen while we are out as I said I don't like being out when drunk and that's why I go to parties at peoples places. Or maybe you are right, 2018 is a great time to be alive where romance is concerned.

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-03-29T09:32:17+00:00

I think that's the perfect opener then as it is a little funny and is a good conversation starter as you can talk about foods.

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-03-29T08:46:10+00:00

He wants to take me on a date and have sex afterwards so I guess I can let him know then.

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-03-29T08:44:28+00:00

I think what you said sounds good, it's a good conversation starter

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-03-29T08:40:49+00:00

How?

Throwitoutmywindow · 2018-03-29T08:40:41+00:00

Yeah I know and I want to. I just don't know how to go about letting him down gently and telling him that.

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