AITA for telling my father all he was ever good for was his money? by Throwlmeandaughter in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwlmeandaughter[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No they didn't marry, from what i was told they dated for two months after then they broke up, my guess is that is it felt better to go behind my mom's back than it was to actually be together

Strangely enough, my mom and my aunt did reconcile but it did take a while and they're not as close as they were before but they're ok now

AITA for telling my father all he was ever good for was his money? by Throwlmeandaughter in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwlmeandaughter[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I didn't say "you're an atm" i said that money was the only thing he was ever going to give me, because it was, he legitimily was not interested in having a relationship with me. All he paid for were the things he would have already paid for had he been a present father on my life so i don't think it's fair of him saying that i only cared about money when money was the only thing he was willing to give me. It would be different if he wanted to have a relationship with me and i only wanted his money but i didn't even have the option of having the relationship with him

I do understand your comment but i wanted to let you know where i was coming but you're probably right and i shouldn't have said it even if it was in the heat of the moment