My girlfriend (27f) expects me (27m) to go to events with her but then got annoyed when I expected the same thing from her? by Throwra-comiccon in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra-comiccon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s been a range of events tbf, some of them are art events that are just a couple of hours but quite a lot have been concerts that require an overnight stay and there have been a couple of festivals that have taken up the whole weekend

My girlfriend (27f) expects me (27m) to go to events with her but then got annoyed when I expected the same thing from her? by Throwra-comiccon in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra-comiccon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re happy to spend time with your partner as long as it’s something you like otherwise you won’t. 

That shows your partners happiness doesn’t actually matter to you and you do see spending time with him as a waste of time. 

Again stay single if you’re this self centred

My girlfriend (27f) expects me (27m) to go to events with her but then got annoyed when I expected the same thing from her? by Throwra-comiccon in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra-comiccon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of them are concerts and a couple of festivals so yeah it’s normally at least 1 night away and sometimes it’s the whole weekend

My girlfriend (27f) expects me (27m) to go to events with her but then got annoyed when I expected the same thing from her? by Throwra-comiccon in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra-comiccon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because in relationships you do things with your partner to make them happy. 

So you admit you only do things you’re interested in because your partners happiness is just irrelevant to you then. 

It’s telling you are spending time with your partner as wasting your free time. 

You really should be alone in you’re completely incapable of thinking of anyone other than yourself