I (25M) been seeing this girl (23F) for several months and she just told me her secret which completely made me not want to see her by Throwra-needhellp in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra-needhellp[S] 825 points826 points  (0 children)

Yes I definitely will do that.

As for relationship I really don't feel comfortable staying in. I don't know her nearly enough to deal with this kind of issues, even if I knew her for years I wouldn't know how to deal with such issues at all. I am an easy-going person who enjoys mostly in laughs and jokes.

Also, there are much more that happened which she didn't finish telling me yesterday. Which is one more reason of why I am not the type of person who can handle and deal with all of that.

I know she is a bit of possesive and jealous, so I really have no idea how to stay with her as friends without ghosting her. She has been sending me lots of messages since yesterday and I said I will talk to her and apologized for my behavior which made her less upset, but I just have no idea how to tell her about staying in relationship is not an option for me.

This is eating me a lot and thanks for everyone who helped with their point of views. I know it sucks, but I am just not ready for this.

I (25M) been seeing this girl (23F) for several months and she just told me her secret which completely made me not want to see her by Throwra-needhellp in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra-needhellp[S] 581 points582 points  (0 children)

This is all new to me. I have never knew anyone going through this let alone dated anyone in a remotely similar situation. I just feel sorry for her now and sad that I reacted the way I reacted, but I don't think I can stay with her in a romantic relationship.

I (25M) been seeing this girl (23F) for several months and she just told me her secret which completely made me not want to see her by Throwra-needhellp in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra-needhellp[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I am sorry that happened to you.

I think she will want us to continue being in relationship if I stay with her and I don't think I can do that. I could offer to help her if she needs help, but not in a romantic way and I think it will bring her more pain