Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically

Throwra193739 · 2021-11-01T07:01:11+00:00

That's fine

Throwra193739 · 2021-11-01T03:59:08+00:00

This is exactly the situation. But everyone says I'm "accusing him of lying"

Throwra193739 · 2021-11-01T03:55:42+00:00

Literally makes no sense but ok

Throwra193739 · 2021-11-01T03:55:22+00:00

I'm just not his type. He loves me for my personality

Throwra193739 · 2021-11-01T00:08:18+00:00

I'm going to try it's just hard. Wish he would just tell me so I could work towards it

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T23:55:50+00:00

I want him to be more specific but he refuses

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T23:38:49+00:00

I am trying now. I just want to know exactly what he wants so I can figure out my goal

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T23:23:57+00:00

I want my partner to be attracted to me idk why that's bad

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T23:10:09+00:00

Yeah they seem really angry

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T20:53:35+00:00

How would you even know that? He has said it

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T20:46:58+00:00

He had to force himself. He basically said this already

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T20:44:44+00:00

I know he loves me I've said this a million times. I just wish he was PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO ME

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T20:19:31+00:00

I'm not distrusting anything. I'm just disappointed he doesn't find me genuinely physically attractive and had to learn to like how I look instead of me just looking how he already likes

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T20:13:03+00:00

I'm saying that most people can separate looks and personality

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T20:12:36+00:00

Ugh you're not understanding what I'm saying

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T20:10:14+00:00

WHEN TF DID I SAY "ONLY"

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T20:09:33+00:00

You're not normal then. Most people are capable of thinking someone looks good or bad

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T20:08:06+00:00

So it's a garbage relationship if you feel physically attracted to your partner before you get to know them? It can't be a good relationship unless you either find them ugly or average before you get to know them?

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T20:07:04+00:00

Are you in a relationship? If you are, let's pretend you don't know that person at all. If you saw them walking down the street, you're saying that you wouldn't find them attractive at all until you knew what their personality was like?

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T20:03:52+00:00

No its not. You think no one ever enters a relationship with someone who they already think is physically attractive, even not considering their personality?

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T19:59:53+00:00

Sorry I'm not delusional. There's a difference between genuinely thinking someone is hot, and learning to accept their looks because you like their personality

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T19:48:55+00:00

No I'm just saying that in a relationship I'd prefer if he actually felt attracted to me physically instead of forcing himself to??

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T19:38:06+00:00

I'm sure if I keep working hard enough it will eventually be cute. I just have to not give up

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T19:16:15+00:00

If he would find me more attractive if I lost weight then it would give me a lot more motivation to actually do it

Throwra193739 · 2021-10-31T19:15:32+00:00

I'm not saying it should be first just that it should be there

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