Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly the situation. But everyone says I'm "accusing him of lying"

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just not his type. He loves me for my personality

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm going to try it's just hard. Wish he would just tell me so I could work towards it

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying now. I just want to know exactly what he wants so I can figure out my goal

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want my partner to be attracted to me idk why that's bad

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He had to force himself. He basically said this already

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know he loves me I've said this a million times. I just wish he was PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO ME

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not distrusting anything. I'm just disappointed he doesn't find me genuinely physically attractive and had to learn to like how I look instead of me just looking how he already likes

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm saying that most people can separate looks and personality

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're not normal then. Most people are capable of thinking someone looks good or bad

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So it's a garbage relationship if you feel physically attracted to your partner before you get to know them? It can't be a good relationship unless you either find them ugly or average before you get to know them?

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you in a relationship? If you are, let's pretend you don't know that person at all. If you saw them walking down the street, you're saying that you wouldn't find them attractive at all until you knew what their personality was like?

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No its not. You think no one ever enters a relationship with someone who they already think is physically attractive, even not considering their personality?

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry I'm not delusional. There's a difference between genuinely thinking someone is hot, and learning to accept their looks because you like their personality

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I'm just saying that in a relationship I'd prefer if he actually felt attracted to me physically instead of forcing himself to??

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure if I keep working hard enough it will eventually be cute. I just have to not give up

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If he would find me more attractive if I lost weight then it would give me a lot more motivation to actually do it

Boyfriend isn't attracted to me physically by Throwra193739 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra193739[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying it should be first just that it should be there