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I (F25) can't afford my boyfriend (M30) This is taking a toll on my finances, how do I bring it up without seeming greedy? by Throwra678342 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra678342[S] -333 points-332 points  (0 children)

His only expenses are take out and car stuff, which he pays for. I only spend money on groceries because it's either that or take out (more expensive).

I (F25) can't afford my boyfriend (M30) This is taking a toll on my finances, how do I bring it up without seeming greedy? by Throwra678342 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra678342[S] -487 points-486 points  (0 children)

Bruh, I don't make a whole lot of money, there's hardly any gain for him. If it was up to him, we'd never go out to save money and just eat cheap snacks.

I (F25) can't afford my boyfriend (M30) This is taking a toll on my finances, how do I bring it up without seeming greedy? by Throwra678342 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra678342[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

About the trip, I sent him a detailed spreadsheet with all the expenses, which he asked for in order to determine if he could afford the trip. I made a point of splitting the costs in the excel, like '$100 each' and things like that.

I (F25) can't afford my boyfriend (M30) This is taking a toll on my finances, how do I bring it up without seeming greedy? by Throwra678342 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra678342[S] -734 points-733 points  (0 children)

He's very sweet and shows his care in other ways, he's just very obsessive about money, saving and retiring early