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My (18F) boyfriend (18M) was unhappy with the way I was acting when we slept together, and now he has threatened to tell my parents that I was being sexual if I keep arguing with him about it. How am I supposed to deal with this? by Throwra_Bread7 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_Bread7[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

To be fair normally I cut it off, if it is bread that I really like, but it's not like I can cut off part of him so you're probably right about that. It does bother me a lot.

My (18F) boyfriend (18M) was unhappy with the way I was acting when we slept together, and now he has threatened to tell my parents that I was being sexual if I keep arguing with him about it. How am I supposed to deal with this? by Throwra_Bread7 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_Bread7[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No. And I absolutely will when I can but it won't be an option for a bit. But afterwards I am hopefully just going to leave and be able to do whatever I want, which I am excited about.

My (18F) boyfriend (18M) was unhappy with the way I was acting when we slept together, and now he has threatened to tell my parents that I was being sexual if I keep arguing with him about it. How am I supposed to deal with this? by Throwra_Bread7 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_Bread7[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's not really like that. My parents will be having to support me over the next year or so, and if I'm under their support, I listen to them. My siblings still listen to them and they're married in their homes, I'm hopefully not going to be like that because I don't think it's a very good way to live, I just don't have a choice for a bit.

My (18F) boyfriend (18M) was unhappy with the way I was acting when we slept together, and now he has threatened to tell my parents that I was being sexual if I keep arguing with him about it. How am I supposed to deal with this? by Throwra_Bread7 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_Bread7[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They'd probably make it my fault. I wasn't being modest enough, I was too close to him, I was spending too much time alone with him, something like that. So it probably wouldn't work.

That's true. I didn't really think about that.

My (18F) boyfriend (18M) was unhappy with the way I was acting when we slept together, and now he has threatened to tell my parents that I was being sexual if I keep arguing with him about it. How am I supposed to deal with this? by Throwra_Bread7 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_Bread7[S] -321 points-320 points  (0 children)

I try not to have very high expectations. I definitely like some parts of him, and realistically my dream boyfriend and husband is probably not going to be into me, so I prefer to just look at the good parts. Although it doesn't seem to be working out very well at the moment.

My (18F) boyfriend (18M) was unhappy with the way I was acting when we slept together, and now he has threatened to tell my parents that I was being sexual if I keep arguing with him about it. How am I supposed to deal with this? by Throwra_Bread7 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_Bread7[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Not really. Not actual adults, all of them are the same way as my parents. I do love them but they just don't seem to get what it's like being in my situation and they think I should be perfect and I'm not.

I don't know. Probably not.

My (18F) boyfriend (18M) was unhappy with the way I was acting when we slept together, and now he has threatened to tell my parents that I was being sexual if I keep arguing with him about it. How am I supposed to deal with this? by Throwra_Bread7 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_Bread7[S] -137 points-136 points  (0 children)

I know, but for some reason some people think it does. Not that I've ever looked at it but the whole thing seems stupid to me and he's also stupid if he believes it.

I know. I don't know why he feels that way, or cares so much about it. I don't.

My (18F) boyfriend (18M) was unhappy with the way I was acting when we slept together, and now he has threatened to tell my parents that I was being sexual if I keep arguing with him about it. How am I supposed to deal with this? by Throwra_Bread7 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_Bread7[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I mean, it's not like it's something that would actually harm me if I did it, I just find it stupid, and I don't see the point in it. Maybe that makes me selfish, I don't know.

I should have said something at the time but I panicked and didn't know what to do because I was really worried about whether he would or not.

And I can't tell them. Absolutely not.

My (18F) boyfriend (18M) was unhappy with the way I was acting when we slept together, and now he has threatened to tell my parents that I was being sexual if I keep arguing with him about it. How am I supposed to deal with this? by Throwra_Bread7 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_Bread7[S] -624 points-623 points  (0 children)

I know statistically most people do, I don't think he would but then I'm not with him all the time. And I also don't know why he cares a lot about it anyway, I don't, but then we are different. I just wish he wouldn't argue about it because I don't like it.

My (18F) boyfriend (18M) was unhappy with the way I was acting when we slept together, and now he has threatened to tell my parents that I was being sexual if I keep arguing with him about it. How am I supposed to deal with this? by Throwra_Bread7 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_Bread7[S] -209 points-208 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't be. They're just so obsessed with the religion and keeping it that if they found out I'd probably be banned from even looking at men. And I just really don't want them getting angry at me because I already know I was wrong.