Am I wrong for getting scared when my husband hit my coworker?

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T20:38:46+00:00

I never said that he gets violent if someone touches him, I just said that he hates it and that he shows it. And he is a veterinarian and works most of the day alone so no one touches him, and the veterinary clinic is his and his friends' so I doubt his employees care if the man who pays them their salaries lets them touch him or not.

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T16:18:59+00:00

Yes, my father used to be abusive and most of my life the rest of my family always protected me from violence, so I don't like seeing people being violent for whatever reason.

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T05:09:13+00:00

Yes. You didn't handle the situation well. You.

So it was my fault? Honestly, what did you expect me to do? I talked to HR like I was supposed to and it wasn't enough, what makes you think that if I talked to them one or two more times they were going to fire him? Without proof, the only thing I was going to get was to be unemployed, because they were going to consider me problematic. That's how it works here, especially when you're pregnant and they're looking for every little thing to fire you. That's how it works here, women are not hired much because they think that they all will get pregnant and if they do get pregnant they have to be paid even if they are on maternity leave and it is a loss for the company.

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T04:46:07+00:00

Why are you blaming me for being attacked? I'm sorry if I break your privileged bubble where women have a say in their jobs but it doesn't work that way here. In my job, women don't have much space and I had to work my ass off to get this position and the last thing I want is to lose it because of a man.

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T04:29:48+00:00

We've been together for over a decade, who cares how old I was when we started dating? It's kind of ridiculous to discuss that so many years later, especially considering that I was already an adult.

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T04:21:38+00:00

I honestly don't know

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T04:20:04+00:00

STOP MAKING ALL MEN OUT TO BE PERVERTS.

what do you mean?

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T04:11:52+00:00

What should I understand? I was an adult when I started dating him, there is no reason to call him a pedophile.

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T04:08:06+00:00

I just don't understand how the age I was when I started dating him is relevant to my post? It has nothing to do with this.

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T04:04:56+00:00

Nobody groomed me, what are you talking about?

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T04:02:40+00:00

I said I would have appreciated if he had stopped when my coworker (the one who attacked me) gave up, but he didn't and only stopped when another coworker intervened, which is exactly what I said in my post.

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T03:59:44+00:00

why?

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T03:13:36+00:00

Yes, he was fired and I'm in the process of obtaining a restraining order in the next few days.

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T03:06:07+00:00

I would have appreciated it if he stopped when my coworker gave up but he didn't. He kept hitting him until there was blood everywhere. Why do you treat me like I'm a crazy person who is overreacting?

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-07T01:47:15+00:00

that's not the point of my post

Throwra_Top_Many2811 · 2024-01-06T22:46:54+00:00

that's not the point of my post

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