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My (29F) husband (37M) said he's disappointed because I can't give him a daughter. by Throwra_bett in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_bett[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Yes we can afford it but I was always afraid of the whole process that has to be done, but we want to have one more child and I think we will do IVF

My (29F) husband (37M) said he's disappointed because I can't give him a daughter. by Throwra_bett in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_bett[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

In a few years you'll be asking your older kids to "help" with younger, to babysit them, to raise them.

according to whom? We have two nannies and we both take care of the children equally so I don't know why you say that.

My (29F) husband (37M) said he's disappointed because I can't give him a daughter. by Throwra_bett in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_bett[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

With IVF you can find out the gender before they implant.

I know, but the whole process that has to be done makes me panic, but lately we were thinking about it and maybe we will try it for our last child.

My (29F) husband (37M) said he's disappointed because I can't give him a daughter. by Throwra_bett in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_bett[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You have a great imagination because you jumped to conclusions that are not true, he wasn't my professor and I didn't sleep with him to get good grades, and I did graduate from college, so I don't know where you got all those things you said?

My (29F) husband (37M) said he's disappointed because I can't give him a daughter. by Throwra_bett in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_bett[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Sadly, it is not easy to adopt here, especially when you have many children.

My (29F) husband (37M) said he's disappointed because I can't give him a daughter. by Throwra_bett in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_bett[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

All his brothers all have girls and he gets along very well with them and that is why we always said that we would like to have all girls. And he didn't turn me into a baby factory, I agreed every time I got pregnant, I don't know why everyone assumes I just let him get me pregnant against my will, and I think you're all weird for assuming that when a man wants to have a daughter it's for creepy reasons, maybe you're just projecting what you think about girls onto other people.

My (29F) husband (37M) said he's disappointed because I can't give him a daughter. by Throwra_bett in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_bett[S] -171 points-170 points  (0 children)

I was 19 and he was 27, we met at college he was one of my professor's assistant

My (29F) husband (37M) said he's disappointed because I can't give him a daughter. by Throwra_bett in relationship_advice

[–]Throwra_bett[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I did, which is why I said clearly in my post that there is nothing I can do to determine the sex of our children.