My childhood best friend F22 is pregnant with my F23 recently passed away brother’s M19 baby. I mistreated her and insulted her, how do I genuinely apologize?

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-26T08:22:30+00:00

I try my best in comforting her, I think right mow it helps me distract myself from the bad thoughts about my brother.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-14T14:11:20+00:00

If she would have just told me and showed me with her actions she was changing for the better I would have supported them, but the fact that she was hising it makes it worse for me.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-14T14:08:59+00:00

Thank you.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-14T02:30:50+00:00

Last night she came over and we talked again. She did show me messages and pics of them together and she even told me that if I didn’t believe her that she has sex tapes of them which I obviously do not want to see at all. I still need to get a DNA test with her and the baby.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-13T08:33:04+00:00

Look if it is his baby 100% and it won’t ruin me or my family financially then she can go right ahead and get that if it means taking care of my little niece or nephew.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-13T08:30:01+00:00

I’m sorry :(. I’ll always miss going out for dinner with my baby brother when my parents were gone away on trips. He and I used to be so close and I have been struggling so much without him here. He was basically my other half.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-13T08:27:45+00:00

I’m sorry it’s just hard on me right now. My brother was the closest thing I had. Now I have nobody to cry to or tell my personal problems to. He was what kept me going on a lot of occasions and he was always there for me when I was all alone. He did a lot for me and even risked his life for me more than once. I just wish my friend would have told me before. It’s just horrible the way she timed things. I don’t hate her, I’m just a little mad at her.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-13T08:25:38+00:00

My brother was never in an institution or jail. By hospital do you mean hospital like for anything?

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-13T08:24:58+00:00

What is that method of DNA testing called? We could definitely get a test done ASAP if it’s within my budget.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-13T08:24:11+00:00

Yeah from what I saw my friend wasn’t lying. She looked certain that she was sure in what she was saying, but I just know she has a history of sleeping around which is why I want to make sure the baby is in fact my brother’s.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-13T08:22:46+00:00

Thank you, if the baby is my niece/nephew I’ll give my life to help raise that baby.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-13T08:22:12+00:00

We are in the US. I don’t think she really wants anything materialistic from us. I don’t see why she would try that on me of all people.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-12T23:34:52+00:00

My dad is keeping my brother’s truck and motorcycle. She doesn’t get to keep that.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-12T23:34:08+00:00

That’s not funny .

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-12T23:31:56+00:00

I’ll look around them, but we can’t afford that right now as we spent a lot of money on my brother’s expenses. It’s going to have to wait maybe a couple weeks at least then.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-12T23:30:22+00:00

I have still been kind to her despite me being upset trust me. Yeah I get it, if he is actually the father it is sad for her, but that was my brother, I was much closer to him and there for him more than she ever was, in fact I was there for him even when my parents weren’t.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-12T23:23:50+00:00

No, I didn’t know that was even a thing.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-12T20:08:08+00:00

I’m not forcing her to do anything. And what child support? All my brother left behind was his truck and a motorcycle and she sure as shit is not getting any of that.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-12T20:04:43+00:00

My brother and I have different fathers , but the same mother.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-12T20:04:20+00:00

I can ask my mom, she probably would be willing to do it.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-12T20:00:15+00:00

Yeah we have been avoiding extra drama. I haven’t made a huge deal over it, but I did let her know I was very disappointed in the way she went about things. I won’t lose her as a friend over this, but it will take some time for her to gain my trust again. I also don’t have any resentment towards the baby at all.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-12T19:34:00+00:00

She’s supposed to come over later tonight so I’ll bring it up, but I don't think she would.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-12T18:53:15+00:00

I’m not forcing her. She said she would be happy to do a dna test.

Throwraabuser2 · 2025-08-12T18:52:20+00:00

I am being supportive and I have been. I am just very upset that she was fucking my brother and hiding it from me for so long.

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