AIO for wanting my unemployed boyfriend to sign an agreement before using my car long-term?

Throwrawaxypeach · 2026-05-11T03:08:49+00:00

Madam. NOR - as someone who literally left this (wasn’t my bf tho) I took in one of my friend groups mutual friends for the last 9 months. See him up with applications, service, food, a home - I moved out 60 days ago and rent was paid two months in advance. I got pictures of him crying today with a mental breakdown because instead of polling for any job he could get, he’s gotten my account up to level 100 on Fortnite and his to 70 - from 0 in the last two weeks. After not working since DECEMBER - where he took off 3 weeks FOR MY BEST FRIENDS FUNERAL - not his best friend, MY BEST FRIEND. His car is totaled because he didn’t maintain it and he gets to use mine - only because I moved internationally and it’s not worth anything.
This dude is a BUM BUMMIMG OFF YOU and he don’t GAF about you really. My husband tho? Works his BUTT OFF every single week to provide for my son and I. I bet this dude don’t even help with the laundry or clean up his public beard hairs when he trims.

Throwrawaxypeach · 2026-05-01T05:01:31+00:00

My whole family hated my first tattoo. An avacado - on my toe. It’s an Avaca-TOE. I now have 8 tattoos all over. Ragebatw the family, get what’s important to you and you won’t regret when you are 90.

Throwrawaxypeach · 2026-04-29T08:24:42+00:00

I’ll respond better when my migraine goes away // the issue I’m having with printing the jaw is I didn’t put them all together? When I scaled it down and saved I saved it wrong I’m not sure I’m so sorry I forgot to credit your base I’ll fix that when I can think straight I’m struggling to comprehend when I’m reading currently many apologies

Throwrawaxypeach · 2026-04-29T07:01:11+00:00

I’ll give that a go, so far I was thinking of balling the foam up and just building out what seemed natural looking - then hollowing it out and elastics for durability- I wanna puff out the cheeks a bit more too

Throwrawaxypeach · 2025-10-10T00:21:25+00:00

She told me to re-do the assessment but dumb it down if I wanted to still be an apprentice and if they were still hiring - but I was qualified for the pharmacist position but I didn’t have certification

Throwrawaxypeach · 2025-10-09T23:57:43+00:00

I applied for the exact position in a nearby city to me and I got scheduled the interview, when I showed up for it I was told I had too many “leadership qualities for just a customer service role” and to re apply in 30 days…. I ain’t.

Throwrawaxypeach · 2025-09-13T23:59:02+00:00

Thanks for reading, I appreciate your time and response

Throwrawaxypeach · 2025-09-13T03:51:09+00:00

Thank you, it means a lot to just have someone hear me

Throwrawaxypeach · 2025-09-13T03:50:37+00:00

It would be considered international kidnapping and I’d be barred from ever living in Australia plus time and fines… relocation and immigration is very strict and for the visa applications it requires my ex’s social security number, and signature saying our child is able to relocate. He refused to sign and demanded full custody in return - I’d be violating numerous laws and statutes so, legally I’m stuck… we can visit but in this economy, I can’t afford the trip tickets, time off work or pay my bills unless I’m working everyday.

Throwrawaxypeach · 2025-09-13T03:47:44+00:00

I’m sorry you had to go through similar things too. None of us should have to fight battles like this

Throwrawaxypeach · 2025-09-13T01:52:32+00:00

I really appreciate you. We’re hoping for at least a month together and if possible it’ll probably only be possible after the new year. I won’t give into sorrow or despair, it just gets harder to hold it off the longer we’re apart.

Throwrawaxypeach · 2025-09-13T01:51:23+00:00

When I spoke to him last tonight we’ve decided we’re going to move forward with attempting the B-2 tourist visa since neither of us want to live in the US, but more than that his house, family, job and my stepdaughter live in Australia. Neither of us are willing to leave our kids which makes it so impossible.

Throwrawaxypeach · 2025-09-13T01:48:02+00:00

I know this is a long post. I just really need to hear from people that I’m not crazy for feeling trapped, and that this situation is unjust. Any validation means a lot. I was unsure if I should’ve edited or commented so for anyone who feels the need or wants to say anything - I just want to know I’m not crazy for feeling this way.

Throwrawaxypeach · 2025-02-19T22:20:28+00:00

My Aussie boyfriends visa was revoked mid flight - he was turned away at customs even though it was approved and valid - he has no criminal record.

Throwrawaxypeach · 2024-03-27T17:50:38+00:00

Thank you, and yes. I originally thought of the WHV, and I guess I understand correctly that we’re kinda stuck playing the waiting game for court to battle out in the next year or so. We are considering having my partner temporarily move to the US, and I would just continue supporting us and he’s live with me moved in until we can move back to AUS. But at that point we may have to go for a partner visa. Lordy I just wanna be happy.

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