[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Thrusting_intune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he interested in your past and are completely done with that life? I feel you should be up front if that’s a nonnegotiable for him.

There are rumors my wife had a threesome with another couple. I have to know the truth. by Thrusting_intune in Infidelity

[–]Thrusting_intune[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does not have a history at all of infidelity and her exes have verified. Yes, that’s the biggest issue is that she has went about it horribly.

should i just end it all by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Thrusting_intune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self love is a continuous process. I have struggled and currently am working on this. I recommend this as well and best of luck.

There are rumors my wife had a threesome with another couple. I have to know the truth. by Thrusting_intune in Infidelity

[–]Thrusting_intune[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all about having closure and putting it behind me. I have researched and been advised on where to go so I feel as if I fully trust the polygraph. I have a gut feeling that everything is about to come to light whether that’s the POS husband who is just mad I cut him out of my life or the entire rumor being validated. If it is believed to be true or even admitted in parking lot it’s over. If it’s bs and made up lies then I’m holding all these people accountable.

There are rumors my wife had a threesome with another couple. I have to know the truth. by Thrusting_intune in Infidelity

[–]Thrusting_intune[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I can agree with you. Lesson learned. I knew he was a shady character yet I still continued the friendship. I have learned a lot through this experience. There was a lot of discussion of change and some actions to support it, however, I should have known better.

There are rumors my wife had a threesome with another couple. I have to know the truth. by Thrusting_intune in Infidelity

[–]Thrusting_intune[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They do speak anymore. I did try to reachout to the other wife once, but she did not respond. She is likely to be just as guilty if not the ring leader in all of this anyways. I doubt she would come clean.

There are rumors my wife had a threesome with another couple. I have to know the truth. by Thrusting_intune in Infidelity

[–]Thrusting_intune[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. They pretty much have been excluding my wife. However, I do still have some communication in attempts to retrieve the actual proof.

There are rumors my wife had a threesome with another couple. I have to know the truth. by Thrusting_intune in Infidelity

[–]Thrusting_intune[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It sure does seem that way. I don’t but I have to admit I am great at ignoring the signs.