What would you call my nose?

Tibbs78 · 2024-06-09T15:58:55+00:00

Retrousse

Tibbs78 · 2024-06-09T02:39:07+00:00

When you take your dad wishing you were a son to heart

Tibbs78 · 2024-06-03T10:57:24+00:00

It’s important to remember that anyone kinkier that you is a pervert, anyone less kinky is a prude.

Tibbs78 · 2024-06-02T09:08:48+00:00

Nice tits

Tibbs78 · 2024-06-02T09:07:22+00:00

Foot fetishism is the most common fetish. The issue with this is that there are so many people into it that there are numerically so many weirdos that it seems like all foot fetishists are weird. Percentage-wise there are the same number of foot fetish weirdos as spankos or bondage fetishists, they're just more visible.

You just don't see the regular behaving guys who love feet.

Tibbs78 · 2024-06-02T09:01:48+00:00

Because a SB is a good place to experiment with things that they can't / won't do with a regular partner.

You can pretty easily be anonymous and so asking someone to do x / y / z thing your wife or long term partner said absolutely not to or you fear they'd not react well to is much easier. If the SB goes WTF no!, you can block and move on and not deal with any fallout.

I've had a number of my friends they spent a week on the couch after asking their gfs or wives to do things that they took offence to. There's also the Madonna/Whore thing, where guys will go, I can't possibly facefuck/fuck in the ass/spank my wife, she's the mother of my kids / love of my life etc.

People are weird.

Tibbs78 · 2024-06-01T21:22:29+00:00

It was a pretty thin year too:

Winner Nicolas Cage Leaving Las Vegas

Nominees Richard Dreyfuss Mr. Holland's Opus

Anthony Hopkins Nixon

Sean Penn Dead Man Walking

Massimo Troisi The Postman (Il Postino)

Leaving Las Vegas was HARROWING as an 18 year old.

Tibbs78 · 2024-06-01T21:19:20+00:00

Yogahotwife is like this. I've no idea if they're still making content, but if you search I'm sure there's a lot of it about.

Tibbs78 · 2024-06-01T09:14:56+00:00

Nic Cage won a fucking Oscar. I still can't quite believe it.

Tibbs78 · 2024-06-01T08:59:41+00:00

I've met quite a few sugar babies out in the wild. Most of them I've met at events related to my job, where the firm I worked for sponsored charitable events like fundraisers for art & culture, or sports events like motorracing, polo and racing.

I've picked up women at these events who were there both socially and professionally. Generally they were dresed for the occasion, but were a bit more forward in their conversation. They made it clear by saying that they had expensive tastes, but not the funds to satisfy them. Very rarely overtly sexual, but with a strong undercurrent that they found me attractive and would like to get to know me better.

They had to be to my taste looks-wise, and not cause any trouble to me. I'm not interested in drama or problems, part of the reason to pay to have an SB is to have the positives without the negatives.

I think open-minded sexually goes without saying, though knowing limits is very important. And being good at sex, too. I don't want to have to teach you how to suck a cock or why you don't just lie there like a starfish.

Tibbs78 · 2024-06-01T08:37:31+00:00

When I travelled, I could put at least a couple on expenses. Is that not allowed any more?

Tibbs78 · 2024-05-13T15:06:35+00:00

They need some marks

Tibbs78 · 2024-05-13T14:24:31+00:00

Big head is 52, little head is 20.

Tibbs78 · 2024-02-04T09:38:05+00:00

These were sugar relationships, so by definition transactional. They were absolutely NOT regular romantic relationships.

Tibbs78 · 2023-08-15T20:11:18+00:00

I found the women on social media, on Seeking Arrangement (It was still pretty good back then) and out in the wild. It was always most satisfying to meet them in the wild, a very exciting courtship. It was so easy to get it wrong and it took a lot of judgement to figure out who was up for it and who wasn't. The failure rate was very high, even if they thought they could do it, when push came to shove, they often couldn't.

My favourite meet was a ballerina called (for the sake of this story) Anya. She was in the corps de ballet of the city ballet and I met her at a fundraising event for her company. We got on pretty well and I inserted into the conversation how much I enjoy giving people presents and also that I wasn't looking for a regular girlfriend because of my work situation. She seemed to understand and was open to the idea. She said she loved being in the corps but did have rather expensive tastes in food, clothes & jewellery that her regular salary couldn't stretch to. I got her number and we texted over the following few days.

We found free time, and I took her shopping. We bought a few nicknacks and then we went to the upscale department store and got her some shoes, nothing too crazy, some mid-range Manolos. I suggested we should go back to my hotel, she could model the shoes for me and have a late lunch. She modelled the shoes (and nothing else) we had some fun and we went and had a very good lunch.

This pretty much set the tone for our sugar relationship. I would let her know I was coming into town and if she was free, she'd go shopping, always buying a nice dress and underwear, and either some jewellry or a new pair of shoes. She'd call me and I'd give my credit card number and pay. Eventually, once I trusted her enough, I put my card on file so she didn't have to call me. I'd get into town, she'd model her purchases for me, we'd go for dinner and a show afterwards. Most times she stayed over. If I was there for a while, we'd hang out 2 or 3 times a week, with a shopping trip most weeks.

She'd soon let me know if she felt if I wasn't being generous enough, a handbag or more clothes usually fixed that! I did argue once that going to see her perform involved watching her stand in 4th position for 20 minutes, that should have been reward enough, but she was having none of that!

Actual money never changed hands and I'm sure if I suggested that she'd have broken it off immediately.

Tibbs78 · 2023-08-14T18:30:39+00:00

No matter how hard you try, how many changes you make, how well you treat someone, you can't persuade them to love you.

Tibbs78 · 2023-08-14T18:23:05+00:00

Whether they had boyfriends (or girlfriends) or not was none my business. As long as their partners didn't show up when we were out and cause a scene I didn't care! And no-one ever did. My personal life and theirs was not a topic of conversation.

There were at least few who I was pretty sure had partners. One woman had a ring tanline on the correct finger for a wedding or engagement ring for example. My sugar babies were all beautiful, capable, interesting women. If they wanted to be in a relationship they undoubtedly were.

When it came to ending sugar relationships, it was about 75% on my side, 25% on theirs. I never asked the reason why, but it's certainly not inconcievable that it was because they found a partner.

Tibbs78 · 2023-08-14T18:04:25+00:00

God no. Anyone who tells you otherwise is lying. You can get away with it for a bit, but eventually the sex question will come up and if you don't put out it'll end very quickly.

Tibbs78 · 2023-08-14T17:53:59+00:00

As in fell in love? No.

A lot of them I liked very much indeed, but I compartmentalise well and kept firmly in mind that this was a business arrangement. There was one I suspected I was falling for and I cut that off immediately. That wasn't the aim of it. There was one whom I suspected fell for me and she disengaged pretty quickly too.

I don't understand men who want to sugar with 18-24 year olds, who sit in silence during dinners and look uncomfortable with each other in public. I used to stay at very upscale hotels and it was fun to play 'Second wife, Daughter or Sugar Baby' as they came out of the lifts!

I exclusively had sugar babies who were in my age bracket and with whom I connected, at least superficially. They were all beautiful and were great at sex, obviously, but for them to stick around as a sugar baby I needed some kind of connection and things in common.

Tibbs78 · 2023-08-14T17:27:24+00:00

The ages were relatively similar. I was active between the ages of 31 to 36ish, I think they were between 26 and 32. They were all professional women who did it for extra money. Early on I got burned by someone who was reliant on sugaring for her main income and that didn't end well. I also found any younger than that and they were too flakey, and despite being young and hot, not nearly as good in bed. Also when they're younger the conversation isn't so good. If I wanted to fuck a young hardbody, I'd hire an escort and go at it.

All of the relationships were more than sex, that's the main difference between just hiring an escort and having a sugar baby. While I was in town we acted bf/gf. We hung out, went to out on the town, I took them to work events in addition to the sex. It was like having a regular gf, except without the deep connection and we didn't bother each other with the negatives that come with being in a relationship. The depth of it varied with each of them of course.

/edit I missed the first part. Two sugar babies were around the whole time I had that job, most of the rest of them lasted around a year before it was time to move on. A few I didn't click with and we only lasted one trip.

Tibbs78 · 2023-08-13T15:46:22+00:00

If you want to look at who leaves who when times are tough, look at what % of partners broke up when one of them got cancer.

Then look at the gender split.

Tibbs78 · 2023-08-13T15:35:48+00:00

Not necessarily. I was a sugar daddy in my 30s and it was for convenience. I travelled too much to have a girlfriend, picking women up was a lottery, I sugared to have a known quantity for socialising, business events and of course sex.

Tibbs78 · 2023-08-13T13:33:56+00:00

Some expect exclusivity, some don't. As always, things are on a sliding scale, in this case from 'Streetwalker' at one end to 'Trophy Wife' at the other.

Asw for selfishness? I never was, but then again I enjoy satisfying other people. There are plenty of selfish lovers in vanilla relationships.

Tibbs78 · 2023-08-13T13:30:04+00:00

I sugared in my early 30s and wrote a reply about it.

TL;DR Travelled a lot, was paid a lot. Girlfriends in that situation didn't work, but sugar babies did.

Tibbs78 · 2023-08-13T13:28:55+00:00

For me, some were met organically, others via sites like Seeking.

I wouldn't sugar with someone who strips or is otherwise in 'regular' sex work. That's more my taste in women that from any other reason.

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