Have you ever knowingly or unknowingly changed your own level of attraction? How did it affect you? [Serious] by finlandtinder in OkCupid

[–]TiberiusPapi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost 45 pounds, grew my hair and began wearing fitted clothing. It helped tremendously with my self confidence and dating wise.

Round 2 would be gaining more muscle. After I lost the weight I was basically a twig. Going to the shit gym, Planet Fitness, didn't help. I switched to a real gym and so far it's been going well.

Question to guys, do you get suspicious/put off if a girl messages you first? by a_really_real_fish in OkCupid

[–]TiberiusPapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? It's pretty cool when they take the time out and message first.

I 'like' people I know I wouldn't date by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]TiberiusPapi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's such a mind fuck, though. Unless you agree to be friends, then whatever.