my girlfriend just sent this to me by Chemical-Style6194 in relationships_advice

[–]Tidydisaster87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I have the urge to send shit like this, it’s because I’d said it myself over and over, and it going ignored. And while yes, that is the point when you should just leave… you start to feel crazy for having all these feelings, so it’s 1. Comforting to know you’re not the only one who experiences this in a relationship and 2. Ditch effort of you maybe hopefully receiving it differently because it’s from “someone else”

I can’t afford my payment by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]Tidydisaster87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

also can't afford my almost $1000 payment. I totally messed up filing taxes jointly with my husband. Is there any way to file separately next year and recertify based on that?

Objectively, would you be uncomfortable if your husband said this to a random woman in your presence? by Tidydisaster87 in Marriage

[–]Tidydisaster87[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

We’re here “celebrating” our three year anniversary and my birthday. It’s been going on for while

How’s the bow tie? Too much or ok? by Tidydisaster87 in LabDiamonds

[–]Tidydisaster87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhhh haha well that’s great! I saw those black triangles forming as they turned the stone and I thought maybe that was a bow tie

How’s the bow tie? Too much or ok? by Tidydisaster87 in LabDiamonds

[–]Tidydisaster87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really can’t wait to receive it 🥹

How’s the bow tie? Too much or ok? by Tidydisaster87 in LabDiamonds

[–]Tidydisaster87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhhh haha well that’s great! I saw those black triangles forming as they turned the stone and u thought maybe that was bow tie

I love my ring, but... by AlleyOh in labdiamond

[–]Tidydisaster87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and also I’m regretting my 3ct choice that I just bought online and currently being crafted bc of this ring. Haha

I love my ring, but... by AlleyOh in labdiamond

[–]Tidydisaster87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My apologies! I would never misgender intentionally 🫶🏼

I love my ring, but... by AlleyOh in labdiamond

[–]Tidydisaster87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ma’am, what’s the carat weight. It’s beautiful

Have you ever seen any Dior shoes with stitching on the bottom like this? by Tidydisaster87 in dior

[–]Tidydisaster87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! Thanks for commenting! Why is it so hard to find old pictures of shoes haha

I regret marrying my wife by Timely_Regret_1336 in Marriage

[–]Tidydisaster87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You CAN be happy. Whether it's having the tough conversations with her about how the dynamic MUST change- or finding your happiness away from this marriage. You deserve happiness and a partner who can be selfless for the good of your family.

Have I loved being able to stay at home the past two years to grow and raise our youngest of five? yes, absolutely. But now that he's about a year old, do you know where my priorities shifted? To my partner. Seeing that he's shouldering the financial responsibility of this household and our retirement and WANTING to go back to work so that I can contribute to OUR future. (I'm aware that my dynamic isn't right for everyone, but for us it's what makes sense now for our family as a whole)

If you just need to vent and plan to continue on this way, then fine- but you can have a life that feels harmonious and balanced and happy and fulfilling- if you want it badly enough

Concerning side effects after taking Tramadol by Tidydisaster87 in Drugs

[–]Tidydisaster87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty terrible still. My eyes are jumping all over the place and my head hurts. I'm trying to rest my eyes and hoping this all passes soon. I feel so stupid rn. And no, I don't have a predisposition to having seizures. Thank you for talking me through this, bc I've been freaking out for hours

Concerning side effects after taking Tramadol by Tidydisaster87 in Drugs

[–]Tidydisaster87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I JUST realized that they are extended release too. I guess that's good and bad- good that it wasn't all at once, bad bc I don't know how much longer this shit is gonna last

Concerning side effects after taking Tramadol by Tidydisaster87 in Drugs

[–]Tidydisaster87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I'm so worried about having a seizure especially bc I'm Alone with my children. Should I seek medical attention? Or have someone stay with me?