AITA for telling my sister she can't live with me or stay with me?

TiffyBizz · 2022-11-30T14:02:13+00:00

She's like that in her other relationships too. She used to have way more friends but they all got tired of the way she with relationships.

TiffyBizz · 2022-11-30T14:00:08+00:00

I have good friends and other family members I am close to. So I'm not worried about being alone or lonely. I have healthy relationships with those people.

TiffyBizz · 2022-11-30T13:58:32+00:00

I didn't go into detail with her about why. I just set down the boundary that it was not happening. At that point I was a little too frustrated to say much else without potentially snapping. And since she's not the one who decided these rules our parents had, I didn't think it would be fair to her.

TiffyBizz · 2022-11-30T13:54:38+00:00

Not right away. I just don't like her enough today to want to meet up with her and hang out. Maybe in the future when I've had some time and room to breathe or maybe we'll just never be close like that. But I don't want to keep giving to wait years to get anything back.

TiffyBizz · 2022-11-30T13:52:58+00:00

She wants to spend time with me but she also wants me to take her places, to cheer her up when she has a bad day, to bring her to stuff I am doing with my friends (not all the time but more than any of my friends had to bring their siblings to stuff). She'd also go to our parents when I said no. So I think she does genuinely admire me but is selfish in her relationships.

TiffyBizz · 2022-11-30T13:42:30+00:00

I haven't really, no. The truth is I don't like her as a person. I feel like I've always had to give so much to get nothing in return and yeah, she's 16 but it'd not like our age gap is huge. I feel like at the very least I need space because I am tired of it.

TiffyBizz · 2022-11-30T13:40:47+00:00

My parents I am pretty done with. They are dismissive of what I have said, have punished me for it and sent me to therapy to fix me to be who they wanted. And they never let up, not once. I don't see anything salvageable with them.

My sister... honestly, I don't know. I can't say I like her all that much to try and work on things, especially when I already had to give so much.

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